SilverLining Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 So I got asked out on a date, by this very cute guy. I have never really dated before, having always just ended up in long term relationships. I have a few questions. 1. First of all, for a first date, what should a girl wear? I generally love wearing skirts/dresses, but it occurs to me that going the jeans/leggings route might be better because it might make me seem more low key and fun. Probably it would not be a good idea to look too dressed up. Also, the first time I met the guy I was wearing a short, revealing Halloween costume! I've also heard to stay away from red colors but pink is a good idea, and wear something that looks soft/silky. I do NOT plan on sleeping with this guy so I'm not sure if I should pay attention to that. Guys, what has a girl worn on a first date that blew you away? Girls, what has been successful for you? 2. As I said before, I do NOT plan on sleeping with this guy. I actually want to wait for quite awhile, until I have an established relationship. Guys, has this ever put you off dating someone that you really liked? I figure that if a guy has a problem with this he's most likely looking for a booty call. I would just really like to go back to the days when it actually MEANT something when you would get intimate with a girl. 3. Any other tips would be helpful!
befreckled Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 1. First of all, for a first date, what should a girl wear? What kind of date are you going on? Dinner, brunch? Outdoorsy? I'd say wear something you are most comfortable in. So if you like dresses, and it's a coffee date, I'd go with a simple dress (no sparkles, no fancy embellishments) To be very safe (if you didn't know what kind of place you'll be going to), I'd be in dark denims and a fancy top so that it's casual enough for a coffee but, still pretty enough for dinner in a restaurant.
Author SilverLining Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 It will probably be a dinner date. I was thinking that we should meet for dinner since we already spent an hour talking over drinks. I want to go to a Japanese restaurant, because 1. I haven't had Japanese in awhile, and 2. I lived in Tokyo briefly so I'll be comfortable and if the conversation lags I can always talk about my time in Japan.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 So I got asked out on a date, by this very cute guy. I have never really dated before, having always just ended up in long term relationships. I have a few questions. 1. First of all, for a first date, what should a girl wear? If that is your real photo, then definitely go as low-key as you can get! Just find "casual" and stick with that. Otherwise the 'sizzle' factor will be impossible to miss or avoid.
musemaj11 Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 Dont look like a slut if you dont plan on having sex too soon. Dress more conservatively. Advertise yourself in the way that you want the customer to see you. MOST women do not and sometimes refuse to understand this concept.
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