slownumbers81 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I broke up with my ex a few months ago. I feel like a loser because I have been quite upset about it since even though it seemed like the best decision at the time. A few months have passed and I still think about her often. She has fully moved on and is dating someone else and happy and I feel like a total loser. I really missed her and had a hard time with it even before I found out she moved on and is happily dating someone, that just made it a little worse. I'm sure my ex is laughing at me at this point since she's moved on and I haven't. She doesn't understand why I'm so upset if I broke up with her, and I guess I don't really understand either... At this point it's obviously too late and we can't get back together. I just don't know how to get over it and stop thinking about her? I've met other girls that were cute I just go back to thinking about my ex. Help? P.S. We were on good terms for awhile, which was nice, but since she started seeing someone new she has been giving me the cold shoulder.
ScreamingTrees Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Why should you feel bad? You obviously cared about her, so why is that shameful for you? You're not a loser just because you sincerely cared about this person and lost them.. Besides, people are not all the same, some take longer than others to get over stuff, depending on the person and situation.
spengbab Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 It is said that men actually have a harder time getting over relationships, but I think it can be a two way street. You two broke up for an obvious reason. Though you may still regret it, but if she's happy with another guy it seems like you made the right call. It may sting for a little bit, but you'll get over it eventually... even though you may think other wise. You're not a loser. Don't ever think that.
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