Adi Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Hi, i was on this site allot last year, and i found it help me, my story is very twisted, and just getting it down i hope it will help me and others. So, i meet this girl she is sexy grat company, funny and i realise i have met my soul mate, we travel around the world make plans too be together forever, she had slept with around 10 people before she met me, most of them was after her ex had dumped her, it allmost seemed like she used sex too overcome problems, but i was cool with it she never cheated on anyone, and now she was with me happy. It was about 4 years after we met, we were living together for one year by this point, we had a big fall out, i told her too F"""" off and 3 days later she told me she no longer wanted me and was moving out, she moved in with a women, and was just distance with me for about four weeks, in this time we were on and off, till she finaly broke up with me by letter. I will try too keep it short, but what i found out while she was living at this house, was she cheated on me with a old friend, but after we talked i could see how it happend, and every one should have a second chance, we got back together, and i was so so happy for a week until i starrted to think how could she do it, any way she turned from not caring about me too then becoming the best girl in the world again, it was so strange she just seemed to just have eyes for me she really loved me, but over a year i found out that she had cheated on me with 4 guys, and after we broke up had sex with a further 2. It allmost killed me in the end, i just could not live with it, do i give up the best thing that ever happend too me, or do i live a unhappy life, so we broke up, she seemed upset for a week, then she got WI fI she just turned into some one crazy again, dint care about me, she was meeting strangers all over the UK while i was kicking myself for spending a year with some one who told me she would never act like that again, it has been four months now since we broke up, in that time we have met up but all i hear about is some guy she is meeting up with, her hole life is best around sex i would say she has now slept with around 30/50 people. My question is i do love her, and i think she was my soul mate, but i never wont to be with her or even see her again, but how do i recover or start over, i have been on loads of dates, and hung round new and old mates, but i feel like if we can start so happy for all that time and it end so bad, whats the point, i am not angry anymore i think i have in lots of ways moved on but i hate being alone and i hate being with people, i have turned down 4 girls has G/F cause i have no emotion too give, and she has just turned into a unpaid hooker.
swfc_77 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 "and every one should have a second chance" wrong - not everybody deserves a second chance, people have to earn it. you have made a classic mistake as i did i took her back and gave her a second chance too easy. 30/50 people thats outrageous, you want to keep clear of women like that, i know a girl who does that. she's got 2 kids is 30 and says she needs sex to feel attractive, funny enough she is now my ex's best mate. she is on first name terms at the GU clinic. save yourself the heartache mate, people change themselves sometimes for the good sometimes for the bad, they lie to loved ones without thinking of the outcome.
usagi Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Hi, i was on this site allot last year, and i found it help me, my story is very twisted, and just getting it down i hope it will help me and others. So, i meet this girl she is sexy grat company, funny and i realise i have met my soul mate, we travel around the world make plans too be together forever, she had slept with around 10 people before she met me, most of them was after her ex had dumped her, it allmost seemed like she used sex too overcome problems, but i was cool with it she never cheated on anyone, and now she was with me happy. It was about 4 years after we met, we were living together for one year by this point, we had a big fall out, i told her too F"""" off and 3 days later she told me she no longer wanted me and was moving out, she moved in with a women, and was just distance with me for about four weeks, in this time we were on and off, till she finaly broke up with me by letter. I will try too keep it short, but what i found out while she was living at this house, was she cheated on me with a old friend, but after we talked i could see how it happend, and every one should have a second chance, we got back together, and i was so so happy for a week until i starrted to think how could she do it, any way she turned from not caring about me too then becoming the best girl in the world again, it was so strange she just seemed to just have eyes for me she really loved me, but over a year i found out that she had cheated on me with 4 guys, and after we broke up had sex with a further 2. It allmost killed me in the end, i just could not live with it, do i give up the best thing that ever happend too me, or do i live a unhappy life, so we broke up, she seemed upset for a week, then she got WI fI she just turned into some one crazy again, dint care about me, she was meeting strangers all over the UK while i was kicking myself for spending a year with some one who told me she would never act like that again, it has been four months now since we broke up, in that time we have met up but all i hear about is some guy she is meeting up with, her hole life is best around sex i would say she has now slept with around 30/50 people. My question is i do love her, and i think she was my soul mate, but i never wont to be with her or even see her again, but how do i recover or start over, i have been on loads of dates, and hung round new and old mates, but i feel like if we can start so happy for all that time and it end so bad, whats the point, i am not angry anymore i think i have in lots of ways moved on but i hate being alone and i hate being with people, i have turned down 4 girls has G/F cause i have no emotion too give, and she has just turned into a unpaid hooker. When you meet a woman it doesn't matter how many people she has slept with; what matters is who she wants to sleep with in the future. If it's only you then count yourself lucky and don't hold a past that she had before knowing you against her. Unless you're religiously inclined in that case ignore me.
rebeccajones Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Take it one day at a time it will not be easy buy in time you will overcome it. Do not keep a relationship with her or communicate with her.
qbasa Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 When you meet a woman it doesn't matter how many people she has slept with; what matters is who she wants to sleep with in the future. If it's only you then count yourself lucky and don't hold a past that she had before knowing you against her. Unless you're religiously inclined in that case ignore me. I have to disagree. A person's past will dictate what they will do in the future. Like the old saying goes, "You can't turn a hoe into a house wife". If you do get back together, she may stay faithful, but if ever the relationship strains she will revert back to her way. Maybe out of habit or comfort. You should also worry about sexual diseases with her being so promiscuous.
stopthemadness Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Hi, i was on this site allot last year, and i found it help me, my story is very twisted, and just getting it down i hope it will help me and others. So, i meet this girl she is sexy grat company, funny and i realise i have met my soul mate, we travel around the world make plans too be together forever, she had slept with around 10 people before she met me, most of them was after her ex had dumped her, it allmost seemed like she used sex too overcome problems, but i was cool with it she never cheated on anyone, and now she was with me happy. It was about 4 years after we met, we were living together for one year by this point, we had a big fall out, i told her too F"""" off and 3 days later she told me she no longer wanted me and was moving out, she moved in with a women, and was just distance with me for about four weeks, in this time we were on and off, till she finaly broke up with me by letter. I will try too keep it short, but what i found out while she was living at this house, was she cheated on me with a old friend, but after we talked i could see how it happend, and every one should have a second chance, we got back together, and i was so so happy for a week until i starrted to think how could she do it, any way she turned from not caring about me too then becoming the best girl in the world again, it was so strange she just seemed to just have eyes for me she really loved me, but over a year i found out that she had cheated on me with 4 guys, and after we broke up had sex with a further 2. It allmost killed me in the end, i just could not live with it, do i give up the best thing that ever happend too me, or do i live a unhappy life, so we broke up, she seemed upset for a week, then she got WI fI she just turned into some one crazy again, dint care about me, she was meeting strangers all over the UK while i was kicking myself for spending a year with some one who told me she would never act like that again, it has been four months now since we broke up, in that time we have met up but all i hear about is some guy she is meeting up with, her hole life is best around sex i would say she has now slept with around 30/50 people. My question is i do love her, and i think she was my soul mate, but i never wont to be with her or even see her again, but how do i recover or start over, i have been on loads of dates, and hung round new and old mates, but i feel like if we can start so happy for all that time and it end so bad, whats the point, i am not angry anymore i think i have in lots of ways moved on but i hate being alone and i hate being with people, i have turned down 4 girls has G/F cause i have no emotion too give, and she has just turned into a unpaid hooker. With all the bed hopping you just wrote about.. I think you should go get checked at the doctor ASAP come on with all the stuff out there you could get. Seems like that would be reason enough to stay way from this person..Move on please....you can do way better!!
Trinity2 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Take it one day at a time it will not be easy buy in time you will overcome it. Do not keep a relationship with her or communicate with her. Agreed, it's not easy, but it can be done.
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