heiferhamhawk Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I caught my boyfriend a few days ago. I work nights and I got home from work. He told me that he was going to get us breakfast. It took him three hours to come home after that. When he got back, he was acting all lovey and said he locked the keys in the car. It made me suspicious... So I wake up for work the next day around 4 and he's gone and his computers open. I check his email and I find that he went to go meet some random girl from Craigslist... When he got home, I confronted him about it... He swore that nothing happened even though he was gone for that long. And that he drove there but changed his mind. That he didn't wanna lose me... I'm so hurt by this. I thought I was doing everything right.. I don't know what to think. I wanna believe him, but even knowing that he would drive there...
wicar1 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I caught my boyfriend a few days ago. I work nights and I got home from work. He told me that he was going to get us breakfast. It took him three hours to come home after that. When he got back, he was acting all lovey and said he locked the keys in the car. It made me suspicious... So I wake up for work the next day around 4 and he's gone and his computers open. I check his email and I find that he went to go meet some random girl from Craigslist... When he got home, I confronted him about it... He swore that nothing happened even though he was gone for that long. And that he drove there but changed his mind. That he didn't wanna lose me... I'm so hurt by this. I thought I was doing everything right.. I don't know what to think. I wanna believe him, but even knowing that he would drive there... dump him....he's not worth it
KikiW Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 The answer is so obvious I won't even bother to post it. Good luck!
xpaperxcutx Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Someone who wants to cheat is as bad as someone who cheated. Dump him. Besides CL is infested with cheap hookers with STDs. I wouldn't want to contract anything from your bf I were you.
TigerCub Posted November 14, 2010 Posted November 14, 2010 Don't believe him. That guy did NOT turn around and change his mind cuz he loved you - That's such an obvious lie.
blueroses10 Posted November 15, 2010 Posted November 15, 2010 I won't tell you what to do but I agree with the others that he didn't have this meeting for nothing. If you decide to stay with him, STD testing would be in order and be sure to see the results. Also please be sure that he is tested for everything. There is also nothing that says he won't repeat this behavior so I think you have to get to the bottom of what his issue is and why he choose such a crass way to address it.
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