You'reasian Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Good people of LS, just thought I'd say that good girls completely rock! Its refreshing. She may not appear on the next cover of any given fashion magazine, she may dress humbly, but when she takes off her clothes, you are blown away by how fit and smokin hot her body his, how nice and round she is in certain spots - because she never wears revealing clothes, weird huh. She may seem homely and conservative, but when she dresses up and the two of you go out, she owns all the other women on the dance floor. Why? You forgot to ask if she danced - she would have told you that she did jazz, tap and ballet for 10 years She's the kind of girl who realizes that being a good partner is about reciprocation and taking care of one another. You give her a massage and without asking later, she makes you a suprise dinner. She wants to take care of you and she's willing to give back what you give to her. Amazing! Good girls, time to come out of the woodwork. You are wanted and greatly appreciated!
Author You'reasian Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 (edited) USA Check my posts - I've advocated changing venues, locations and ways of meeting women first and foremost to guys who complain about women being bad. Some venues and ways of meeting women can expose you to some good ones. I believe culture plays into this as well. Women from other countries are *sometimes* better partners than some women, because they value family and relationships and know how to take care of men. Doesn't make them better people; just makes them more compatible with guys who want to build happy families. Edited November 7, 2010 by You'reasian
Titania22 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I agree. My girl friend would totally fit the good girl criteria. She is awesome. I would imagine any man would really appreciate her. She keeps her house clean and tidy, cooks the most amazing and diverse meals, takes care of her appearance and health, makes interesting conversation, always ready to laugh, always see the bright side, knows exactly what needs to be done in any crisis, etc, etc, etc. To me, she is incredible, and although she says she is happy being single, I can't help but feel there is some man out there missing out big time.
hearttobreak Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 The term Good Girls is an oxymoron. They do not exist. Last relationship I had I thought was a so called good girl. Within a few months she withdrew from the relationship emotionally and then we broke up. Just a week later in another man's bed and spewed lies about me to her friends. Again, the term Good Girls is an oxymoron. They just do not exist.
Author You'reasian Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 (edited) The term Good Girls is an oxymoron. They do not exist. Last relationship I had I thought was a so called good girl. Within a few months she withdrew from the relationship emotionally and then we broke up. Just a week later in another man's bed and spewed lies about me to her friends. Again, the term Good Girls is an oxymoron. They just do not exist. You didn't take the time to properly vet her relationship traits. This past summer I was dating a girl who seemed kinda plane Jane, relaxed and decent and yeah, we broke up. She may have been in another man's bed shortly thereafter. None of it was a surprise, really because I saw it coming. Some of it is common sense, connecting the dots and some of it is practice. Edited November 7, 2010 by You'reasian
hearttobreak Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 (edited) One would think, with a teenage daughter in the next room the woman would have some morals. After her, sadly, my view has women has been jaded. I just cannot fathom someone acting like that right after relationship. Its not normal or healthy, rebound or not. Before me, she hadn't been with a man for a year. Or so she claimed. Since I knew of her, it seemed she came from a good family and wasn't a slut. Wow, was I wrong. I feel very dirty and used. This is the girl who tells me she is family oriented and not looking for a ONS. Bewildering to say the least. Edited November 7, 2010 by hearttobreak
Author You'reasian Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 One would think, with a teenage daughter in the next room the woman would have some morals. After her, sadly, my view has women has been jaded. I just cannot fathom someone acting like that right after relationship. Its not normal or healthy, rebound or not. Before me, she hadn't been with a man for a year. Or so she claimed. Since I knew of her, it seemed she came from a good family and wasn't a slut. Wow, was I wrong. I feel very dirty and used. This is the girl who tells me she is family oriented and not looking for a ONS. Bewildering to say the least. Sounds like you could use some counseling to get over this.
hearttobreak Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I'm doing fine. Just was disturbed by her actions.
Woggle Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Now if most men knew where they were it would be much easier.
Author You'reasian Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 Now if most men knew where they were it would be much easier. I agree. You're not going to meet them in the obvious places most of the time though.
Mellisa Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Good people of LS, just thought I'd say that good girls completely rock! Its refreshing. She may not appear on the next cover of any given fashion magazine, she may dress humbly, but when she takes off her clothes, you are blown away by how fit and smokin hot her body his, how nice and round she is in certain spots - because she never wears revealing clothes, weird huh. She may seem homely and conservative, but when she dresses up and the two of you go out, she owns all the other women on the dance floor. Why? You forgot to ask if she danced - she would have told you that she did jazz, tap and ballet for 10 years She's the kind of girl who realizes that being a good partner is about reciprocation and taking care of one another. You give her a massage and without asking later, she makes you a suprise dinner. She wants to take care of you and she's willing to give back what you give to her. Amazing! Good girls, time to come out of the woodwork. You are wanted and greatly appreciated! I'm glad that some guys know how to appreciate good girls without thinking she's easy or overcompensating. This is refreshing:)
Author You'reasian Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 I'm glad that some guys know how to appreciate good girls without thinking she's easy or overcompensating. This is refreshing:) I guess I've gotten lucky to meet a good girl, but for the rest of the guys at LS where can they go to meet a good girl?
112233 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 One would think, with a teenage daughter in the next room the woman would have some morals. Wow, you've diagnosed your own problem there. How would a good girl get to be in that situation? If she's not a widow, well, there's your answer. Or put differently: One would think, with a teenage daughter in the next room the woman would have some serious ethical, emotional, and all other sorts of issues.
yoga18 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Cool which country did you find them in? Um in USA there are some of us who are amazing! I'm a good girl you just have to get past the fact that I'm a nerd who doesn't show tits and ass while out in public....there are good girls out there and I'm happy someone is recognizing it!
Untouchable_Fire Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 USA Check my posts - I've advocated changing venues, locations and ways of meeting women first and foremost to guys who complain about women being bad. Some venues and ways of meeting women can expose you to some good ones. I believe culture plays into this as well. Women from other countries are *sometimes* better partners than some women, because they value family and relationships and know how to take care of men. Doesn't make them better people; just makes them more compatible with guys who want to build happy families. Hey I found mine in the U.S.A too, but born and raised elsewhere. No women from other countries are not better people... BUT they do tend to be better women!
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