shubham9331 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 first note that we tried to hide our commitment from our friends.i and my girl friend study in same college.....at first we were friends then suddenly i propose her and she accepted my proposal.after that our love increases day by day and we came closer and closer day by day and then i forced her to have physical relation with me and she never stop me because she loves me so much at that time but one day we were caught by our campus guard in our college bathroom but there we were doing nothing but the guard rumored that we were having sex there.now she started hating me because i forced her to have physical relation with me and second because of that rumor.she now even hate this word love........but i love her so much i don't know why i did all these stuff and i always regretted for that and will do anything to get her back.now help me what should i do to get her back to make her love me again.
Leandro Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 You didn't rape her did you? Or do that "if you love me you will do " crap?
TaraMaiden Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 We're talking a whole complete different culture and mindset here, I suspect.... The intonation of the post doesn't seem native English. Not excusing it, (I'm also waiting to see what gives, actually) but I think by 'force' he might mean 'persuade'.... Which, btw, is still a no-no.....
anne1707 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I think you are right Tara hence wanting clarification. I suspect "pressured" would probably be a more accurate choice of words but still very wrong.
strength-abounds Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 What! The! F***! Whether using the word "force" means rape or persuade, what you did was highly wrong and completely uncalled for. If you truly loved this person, you should never have "forced" her into ANYTHING! Telling someone "I love you" means never having to say "I'm sorry".
Capital P Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Its not rape , its "surprise sex" Im just ****ing with you, he's an ******* Dude, stop apologising for it and give her space
strength-abounds Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I had to go back and reread the OP just to make sure I knew what I was reading. Frankly, if you really did "force" her into sex, her hating you should be the least of your worries. You need some help dude. I'm just saying......................
Leandro Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 He's not replying because he knows we're right.
TaraMaiden Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 He's not replying cos he's a troll. Damn. I knew someone would come along and blind us with unfailing logic.
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