TaurusTerp Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I still don't believe you. It's hard enough to come once in 45 minutes, let alone 5 times. I'd think you were lying if you said she came 2 times. .....Is this for real? You've never heard of multiple orgasms? OP, after 45 minutes I think it's too much to expect to keep going. I've had experiences like this where the woman just stops it because it's been too long and starts to hurt - finish yourself off and live your life.
dispatch3d Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 lol wow to the women hate. Obviously its not cool. **** that chick honestly. Would not call or do again. She can find some other guy to make her cum 5 times (good luck!)
dispatch3d Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 ahhhhh I am appauled by the women's responses.
D-Lish Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 ahhhhh I am appauled by the women's responses. Why are you upset about the responses??? Women, typically don't achieve orgasms during sex. Men always "finish"- that's what defines sex in a man's experience. A woman's orgasm has never defined whether or not the sex is done- it's often irrelevant. It's the man's orgasm that counts. As I said before, I work with a girl that's been seeing a guy for a few months- she's yet to have an orgasm with him. Honestly? That's what sex IS for a lot of women- hit or miss. Imagine the outrage you would feel if you dated a girl for months and she had an orgasm every single time and you weren't paid attention to enough to get there. Wouldn't that suck for you?? That's common place for a lot of women. I've never had a sexual experience with a man where he didn't finish. Me? Sometimes I finish, but only if he puts in an effort. So why are you upset by the responses of some women? This dude experienced something one time where he wasn't able to come and he's absolutely OUTRAGED. Most women are reading this and thinking "welcome to our world" WTF.
beyondhope Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I could say a lot more about this, considering I'm a sexual assault victim advocate, and rolling over and saying nothing could have been a number of things...it really would have been conscientious of you to ask her what she was feeling at that moment. Otherwise, I have to tell you that I've never once had an orgasm with many partners and many years of sex. Do I get pissed off when my partners have an orgasm, or multiple orgasms? No. Sex is about communication. If you communicated during sex, and laid some ground rules before doing the deed, maybe things would have turned out better for ya.
ReturnToSender Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 So why are you upset by the responses of some women? This dude experienced something one time where he wasn't able to come and he's absolutely OUTRAGED. Most women are reading this and thinking "welcome to our world" WTF. Exactly... Feels great, tingly stuff going on that I enjoy, but reaching orgasm during sex just didnt happen for me except for with one guy. Some of it emotional, some of if I think that his shape and technique just had a wonderful working relationship with my shape and technique But its most definitely not a given that women are going to orgasm everytime they have sex... It would actually be a turn off and make me feel so guilty when a guy would ask if I came and how many times, or do the whole "cum now!" thing, as if I can do it on cue...wha? I guess there are women who can do that....Im just not one of em. And yeah, I really really really dont like when a guy takes forever in bed. I can tell you, by the time we hit 30m, Ive already been rubbed raw and not feeling a whole lot of anything, just trying really hard to make like I had the biggest cum ever so that he hopefully will cum too and stop with the pounding already Those jokes about women looking so bored, or painting their nails or reading a book during sex come from somewhere....need something to do after that hour or so has passed and still waiting for him to finish... lmfao
TheMENemy Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 And yeah, I really really really dont like when a guy takes forever in bed. I can tell you, by the time we hit 30m, Ive already been rubbed raw and not feeling a whole lot of anything, just trying really hard to make like I had the biggest cum ever so that he hopefully will cum too and stop with the pounding already Those jokes about women looking so bored, or painting their nails or reading a book during sex come from somewhere....need something to do after that hour or so has passed and still waiting for him to finish... lmfao Hey at the 30 minute mark I am sitting on the couch eating a ham sandwich and watching "Family Guy" reruns. (And no, "eating a ham sandwich" is not a euphemism for a deviant act. Pork is pork.)
Author NickelbackFan Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 I still don't believe you. It's hard enough to come once in 45 minutes, let alone 5 times. I'd think you were lying if you said she came 2 times. And I will reiterate, I don't care what you believe or don't believe, I was there, you were not, it happened. End of story.
Author NickelbackFan Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 You're right. As a woman, I don't always come with every sexual encounter. Imagine, as a guy, having sex, but only being able to finish "sometimes". How would that work out for you? As far as I am concerned, the OP can finish himself off and consider it done. Shows what kind of a selfish partner you would make. Finish himself ? How bout mutual pleasure, ever heard of that ? Maybe your sexual experiences are different from mine but you have a piss poor attitude when it comes to sexual encounters.
Author NickelbackFan Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 Well depending on how (in)credible you believe OP's "Five O's in 45 minutes!" story, and how he supposedly achieved that, instead of "nickelback" maybe his screen name should be: "Baron von Munchhausen." I didn't come here to post to have my experience made fun of. If you need to express you internet antics do so in someone elses thread.
harmfulsweetz Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I don't believe for one second that she came 5 times in 45 minutes. That would make her a circus sideshow. Dude, a girl I work with has been seeing a guy for 4 months, and she's never had an orgasm with him. He finishes every single time though. That's what I thought too. Sorry, but even if she did 'squirt' 5 times in 45 mins I'd still imagine it'd be pretty sore and exhausting. Maybe she did think you had a problem with it. I can understand you feeling a little put out, frustrated even, but if you were that close, you could have just quickly finished yourself off. Each person is responsible for their own orgasm. In an ideal world, everyone would orgasm every time, and it would be mutual, never having to finish yourself off. Sorry, it's not an ideal world. Do you know how many women go without or only by finishing themselves off, while men get off rather freely nearly all the time? A lot. And I'm not complaining-so long as the journey is as good as the destination. Put it down to exhaustion or soreness. I've been really wet before, but the exhaustion makes me sore down there.
harmfulsweetz Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I still don't believe you. It's hard enough to come once in 45 minutes, let alone 5 times. I'd think you were lying if you said she came 2 times. Agreed. It's damn hard for a woman to reach orgasm through sex. In my last relationship, in the first year, I actually could count on one hand the number of orgasms I had through sex. And he's claiming to have given her the same amount in 45 minutes? Maybe he's telling the truth, just seems unlikely. Frustrated yes. Pissed off, no. No one told you to make her have an oh-m-gee five times in forty five minutes. That's all on you buddy. Am I the only one laughing?? These stories are usually the other way around.. You're not the only one Furthermore, if a guy actually did make a girl have five orgasms in one 45 minute session she would have MADE SURE he was satisfied, too. Anyone who is as sexual as OP claims this woman was did not get that way by leaving partners unsatisfied. Yup. You're right. As a woman, I don't always come with every sexual encounter. Imagine, as a guy, having sex, but only being able to finish "sometimes". How would that work out for you? As far as I am concerned, the OP can finish himself off and consider it done. This. I don't know why men think finishing themselves off is such a big deal. It's not. I used to have to nearly all the time, it's not the end of the world. He couldn't tell if she was cumming or going. Why are you upset about the responses??? Women, typically don't achieve orgasms during sex. Men always "finish"- that's what defines sex in a man's experience. A woman's orgasm has never defined whether or not the sex is done- it's often irrelevant. It's the man's orgasm that counts. As I said before, I work with a girl that's been seeing a guy for a few months- she's yet to have an orgasm with him. Honestly? That's what sex IS for a lot of women- hit or miss. Imagine the outrage you would feel if you dated a girl for months and she had an orgasm every single time and you weren't paid attention to enough to get there. Wouldn't that suck for you?? That's common place for a lot of women. I've never had a sexual experience with a man where he didn't finish. Me? Sometimes I finish, but only if he puts in an effort. So why are you upset by the responses of some women? This dude experienced something one time where he wasn't able to come and he's absolutely OUTRAGED. Most women are reading this and thinking "welcome to our world" WTF. Exactly. I'm not bitter about my lack of orgasm capability in sex, that's life. I can sort myself out, or I can give the guy a helping hand, and men do not seem to care so much about a woman's orgasm-after all it's so common for a woman to not. My ex used to say 'well women don't, do they?' As if that excused him! You can see why he's an ex. It really isn't that big a deal. It happens to everyone at times. I don't get it. If OP was that bothered, why didn't he try to continue it, do as carhill rightly said- turn her over, tell her he's not done with her yet etc. Or simply use his hand. Exactly... Feels great, tingly stuff going on that I enjoy, but reaching orgasm during sex just didnt happen for me except for with one guy. Some of it emotional, some of if I think that his shape and technique just had a wonderful working relationship with my shape and technique But its most definitely not a given that women are going to orgasm everytime they have sex... It would actually be a turn off and make me feel so guilty when a guy would ask if I came and how many times, or do the whole "cum now!" thing, as if I can do it on cue...wha? I guess there are women who can do that....Im just not one of em. And yeah, I really really really dont like when a guy takes forever in bed. I can tell you, by the time we hit 30m, Ive already been rubbed raw and not feeling a whole lot of anything, just trying really hard to make like I had the biggest cum ever so that he hopefully will cum too and stop with the pounding already Those jokes about women looking so bored, or painting their nails or reading a book during sex come from somewhere....need something to do after that hour or so has passed and still waiting for him to finish... lmfao Too true. I once watched the news (and I never watch the news normally) during sex. It was like 'Did you hear about...oh, right, keep going then'. It can hurt after a while. Not just inside, but your inner thighs etc. I got cramp once. That made for an interesting interlude. I've always struggled with an orgasm most when the guy expects me to, like the pressure is so immense that the orgasm creeps further and further away from me. Hey at the 30 minute mark I am sitting on the couch eating a ham sandwich and watching "Family Guy" reruns. (And no, "eating a ham sandwich" is not a euphemism for a deviant act. Pork is pork.)
ReturnToSender Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 (edited) I didn't come here to post to have my experience made fun of. If you need to express you internet antics do so in someone elses thread. You posted in a public forum..that sort of opens you up to opinions from the public. Kinda have to toughen up and accept that people arent going to coddle you.. Instead of being angry and defensive about the answer, try and learn something from it...especially considering that the women are generally on the same track on this subject. If most of us are in agreement over your situation, dont you think its worth paying attention to instead of dismissing altogether? We're telling you something here... Just like how you said you just wanted to see her cum and cum and have as much fun as she could cause its her bday and such, you made that choice to not let go and enjoy the moment as well. We do like to see a guy enjoy himself, but yeah, if after all that you arent getting any release, Id figure okay, either Im not doing it for him or hes just one of those guys who just cant. First time sex..shes supposed to know exactly how you are in bed? Thats unreasonable! I mean how would you feel if you were doing everything you could and she just wasnt cumming at all...10m later, 20m later, 30 m later, 40m later..and nothing, zip, zilch.... Considering how proud you are of how many times you made her cum, woudlnt that make you feel like crap if you couldnt make her cum at all? Stop and think..thats exactly what you did to her. Didnt give her any satisfaction of knowing she is satisfying you. Edited November 8, 2010 by ReturnToSender
Jannah Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 A man's achievement to give a woman an orgasm, a fantastic orgasm, is like winning the lottery for him. So, if the OP gave her 5 orgasms in 45 minutes, methinks the ego stroke from it would be beneficial enough.
missmebaby Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 this thread seriously makes me laugh. it just sounds so ridiculous. maybe i should post a thread for everytime the guy gets off and I dont. This whole forum would be full of my posts. Its not like she didnt try.....she didnt quit after the first, second, third, or even fourth orgasm right???? I think she was rather patient with you actually....
harmfulsweetz Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 this thread seriously makes me laugh. it just sounds so ridiculous. maybe i should post a thread for everytime the guy gets off and I dont. This whole forum would be full of my posts. Its not like she didnt try.....she didnt quit after the first, second, third, or even fourth orgasm right???? I think she was rather patient with you actually.... I think every woman on LS that doesn't orgasm often in sex should post a thread each time it doesn't happen. Oh how the tables have turned haha.
ReturnToSender Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 I think every woman on LS that doesn't orgasm often in sex should post a thread each time it doesn't happen. Oh how the tables have turned haha. Jesus...we'd need to just go ahead and open up a new forum for that. Forget thread hijack, that would be an entire site hijack.
harmfulsweetz Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Jesus...we'd need to just go ahead and open up a new forum for that. Forget thread hijack, that would be an entire site hijack. We should definitely build a new section of LS for it-what shall we call it though?
theBrokenMuse Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 (edited) I don't claim to be an aficionado of porn, and not "squirting porn." However I have occasionally seen video clips of it and I have never seen a single one where it is not blatantly obvious that the fluid being expelled by the woman is urine. I'm not talking about laymen watching pr0n and making casual observations about it. I am talking about the scientific community's discussion on if the clear liquid is filtered blood plasma being distributed from the lesser vestibular glands that surround and drain into the urethra or not. The positioning of the glands which guarantee contamination along with the fact that the composition tends to change given a variety of factors has made it something that's difficult to test and as far as I know it's still up for debate. Edited November 8, 2010 by theBrokenMuse
Author NickelbackFan Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 Wow to all the bitter female naysayers, I can care less what you believe because I was there and I know it happened, five times. And yes, it was forty five minutes. I spoke to her today, and we discussed what went wrong. So I know now for my own closure. No one here can tell me what I should of done in regards to my own orgasm. Plain and simple. She even agreed that what she did was wrong. I won't post the other details for the femme nazis on here will try and discredit that too.
brainygirl Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Wow to all the bitter female naysayers, I can care less what you believe because I was there and I know it happened, five times. And yes, it was forty five minutes. I spoke to her today, and we discussed what went wrong. So I know now for my own closure. No one here can tell me what I should of done in regards to my own orgasm. Plain and simple. She even agreed that what she did was wrong. I won't post the other details for the femme nazis on here will try and discredit that too. I like that you spoke to her, you and she are the only people who really know what happened. I hope that for better or worse, things work out.
Author NickelbackFan Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 I like that you spoke to her, you and she are the only people who really know what happened. I hope that for better or worse, things work out. Thank you. I am beginning to question the whole squirting thing. After reading through these responses I hope to hell I didnt get pissed on five times. I don't think it was urine. She said she was a squirter and not to be too graphic but it was projectile every time she came, her vaginal muscles tighten and contract etc.
dispatch3d Posted November 10, 2010 Posted November 10, 2010 Why are you upset about the responses??? Women, typically don't achieve orgasms during sex. Men always "finish"- that's what defines sex in a man's experience. A woman's orgasm has never defined whether or not the sex is done- it's often irrelevant. It's the man's orgasm that counts. As I said before, I work with a girl that's been seeing a guy for a few months- she's yet to have an orgasm with him. Honestly? That's what sex IS for a lot of women- hit or miss. Imagine the outrage you would feel if you dated a girl for months and she had an orgasm every single time and you weren't paid attention to enough to get there. Wouldn't that suck for you?? That's common place for a lot of women. I've never had a sexual experience with a man where he didn't finish. Me? Sometimes I finish, but only if he puts in an effort. So why are you upset by the responses of some women? This dude experienced something one time where he wasn't able to come and he's absolutely OUTRAGED. Most women are reading this and thinking "welcome to our world" WTF. To me sex is about pleasuring yourself and the other person. I want that other person to feel love, loved, etc. I want them to be happy and really enjoy the experience. If they don't get an orgasm and I could give them one then I ****ed up. I should have givin them an orgasm. To me the answer to this problem of women not orgasming enough is to get them to orgasm more. I want more love be in this thing, not less! I don't think the answer is to have noone orgasm. I also think that attitude is kind of poisonous.
Author NickelbackFan Posted November 10, 2010 Author Posted November 10, 2010 To me sex is about pleasuring yourself and the other person. I want that other person to feel love, loved, etc. I want them to be happy and really enjoy the experience. If they don't get an orgasm and I could give them one then I ****ed up. I should have givin them an orgasm. To me the answer to this problem of women not orgasming enough is to get them to orgasm more. I want more love be in this thing, not less! I don't think the answer is to have noone orgasm. I also think that attitude is kind of poisonous. I agree that this particular poster has a poisonous piss poor attitude when it comes to sex. The phrase keeps popping up, every man is responsible for his orgasm, that is true to an extent, like bilogically, but it is his partners role to stimulate him to orgasm weather t be sex, oral, etc. A man shouldnt shouldn't just have to jerk off when he spent a good amount of time being non selfish and attentive to his partners needs. It should be a two way street. As for all you women who are saying oh most women don't have orgams to begin with, I don't care about most women, I am sticking to the topic that I created about this one specific woman, so please keep your personal assumptions and negative experiences to yourself. I did have a long conversation with this woman ad nauseum about what went wrong, and it still does not make sense. I gave her the benefit of the doubt because she wanted to talk and even offered to give it another go sex wise, but I declined.
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