sand26 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Dating two girls in this city. Like them both. Love neither. Losing focus in rest of life. One is close to my age and successful. We have amazing chemistry physically, and she is really low pressure and relaxed. She is beautiful and fun. But.... we don't really communicate very well, and although she is smart, I am not really stimulated by her verbally. The other is younger and not successful financially yet but very involved in several charities. Chemistry is good physically and she is a little less relaxed and less trusting. I like talking to her and we have genuinely cracked each other up a few times in our first few dates. She kind of has an affected manner and I would describe her as more cute than beautiful. I think I need to leave one of them, or both. I have already violated the "1-2-3 you're no longer free" rule with both of them. I know both these girls are really into me and I can't really afford to make either of them enemies. I have a weekend of stuff planned for them.... but I have so much work in the next few weeks.... I really should make my cut(s) by Monday.... My dad said. "When you stick your dick in a woman, there are consequences." I need an enema
xpaperxcutx Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Lol I'm not sure Enema comes on LS anymore. I like your dad's quote, but asides from sticking your little wee-wee in both these girl, don't you think you're slightly risking it by bedding two girls at the same time? Know how much you can juggle before you actually start juggling.
Author sand26 Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 (edited) I hear ya. I have always had girls in different cities, but having both of them here and dating them both consistently is hard. They know I'm not exclusive so that isn't the problem, it's just too much work dating them both. Instead of having 3-4 nights a week to myself, I get 1-2 nights. Just not enough to stay focused. my dad had a lot of great dating advice. like: "They are all crazy, son. Just pick one." Edited November 7, 2010 by sand26 Spelling
Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I'd say go for the one that you can communicate with really well. The other one will be able to move on easier. But hopefully you wont be rude about it. Dont blame you though. I think if your not tied down. Then its good to keep your options open
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