shiftedblue Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Complicated break up. I dumped him in June, took him back a week later. Loved him so much, but we had our issues. A month later he dumped me. Mostly it was NC. I changed my phone number. After 60 days I contacted him...casually. Then one night I was drunk and lonely and texted him that I wanted a hug and missed his hugs. That turned into a booty call a few days later...we had sex. But convo was casual. Even mentioned that I was dating... Then two weeks later another booty call. Now emotions from both of us. Tons of them. And yet... is this going anywhere? If we both miss eachother and think about one another all the time, why aren't we back together? I'm going to lose my mind
durkadurka Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Short answer, yes probably, but you guys really need to discuss what went wrong before so that history doesn't repeat itself.
Author shiftedblue Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 true, and ty. It's just so frustrating.. I really thought I was okay with being without him. granted I knew it was risky to see him and be physical.. but now I'm waiting on him to respond to an email I sent, and a text. and it's making me nuts and I feel like I'm at square one again with the insanity that is a break up. I need to learn to just go with the flow I suppose.
durkadurka Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 true, and ty. It's just so frustrating.. I really thought I was okay with being without him. granted I knew it was risky to see him and be physical.. but now I'm waiting on him to respond to an email I sent, and a text. and it's making me nuts and I feel like I'm at square one again with the insanity that is a break up. I need to learn to just go with the flow I suppose. You have to be okay with being without him, before you can be with him.
Eternity001 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 (edited) I feel the same as you shifted, I waited four months to date, that went great for five months with the new person, I was fine, perfectly fine. I haven't seen my ex since Feb but contact via text message has been constant but sporadic. Now though I feel like I'm back at square one, I don't know why. It doesn't help that she sends me messages telling me she misses me and probably would have stayed with me forever, as early as last week. I tell her I wish things were different and she tells me "they could be" wants to catch up this weeeknd then disappears. I'm trying my best to take those messages with a grain of salt now however but it's extremely hard. Sucks though. Haven't felt this weak and confused for a long long time. Edited November 7, 2010 by Eternity001
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