Nemicron Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 ok To make a long story short. My ex cheated me a crap load of time. I'm actually only able to account for atleast 4 but I know there was alot more. And mind you she is a horrible person. She's terrible to her own kids ( not my babies) And shes like a Denny's open 24hours and lots of people coming inside. And She likes to lie about everything also. She did the whole oh poor me bit and got everyone to turn on me. In the mean time never telling them about any of the crap she did. Well recently I found out the slut, after completely ruining my entire life. And leaving me a bunch of bills, gave me Herpes. Now, I have that under control and everything. And as long as I'm not having an "outbreak" I'm not gonna give it to anyone. Not that I could anyway, I'm to embarrassed about it. Even though I wasn't the one that was unfaithful. Anyway, I found out that because she's in the military. I might be able to get her discharged and thrown in jail for it. If anyone knows more about it, I'd like to know for one. Or peoples thoughts on it. Should I fry her? or do you think I should leave it alone?
Author Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 What no one is gonna suggest anything? I'm not psycho. I've just been thinking about it.
jean-luc sisko Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 healthy people don't enact revenge. rise above it.
LisaLee Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Does she know she has Herpes? It is completely unethical to not tell someone they have an STD, and if she knows and yet continues to have unprotected sex then I do think you should take some action. But you should really evaluate your reasoning behind it... is it to get even with her, or to make sure she doesn't do to others what she did to you?
Author Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 She knew about it a while back. She was away on some sort of training thing. And while she was there she had sex with like 2 people. Her excuse which if you heard story is a pile of crap. I still dont believe it. She claims that she went to a club and got smashed and then some how this guy managed to drag her off and take her all the way to a hotel and then supposedly took advantage of her. But the story has holes in it. And I know she's lying about it. But anyway shortly after that she finally came to Denver and then gave it to me. But after I told her it was for sure. that I had that problem she refuses to get a actual blood test and she uses another excuse and says it was just because of her BC that was causing problems. See I found out she had 2 STD's one was Tich and the other is this herpes thing. So she was having all sorts of bad discharge. So yea I'd say she keeps going around and screwing everything she can. Not really caring Does she know she has Herpes? It is completely unethical to not tell someone they have an STD, and if she knows and yet continues to have unprotected sex then I do think you should take some action. But you should really evaluate your reasoning behind it... is it to get even with her, or to make sure she doesn't do to others what she did to you?
skydiveaddict Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 "The best revenge is a life well lived" Caliguy
ReturnToSender Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Anyway, I found out that because she's in the military. I might be able to get her discharged and thrown in jail for it. If anyone knows more about it, I'd like to know for one. Or peoples thoughts on it. Should I fry her? or do you think I should leave it alone? Nope definitely dont seek out revenge. Karma will get her and the universe will keep its balance. Besides, it seems to me theres nothing you could do that would be worse than what she will end up doing to herself with the path shes on... Besides that, her getting kicked out the military will affect her kids bigtime too...besides her being out of a job, the dependents benefits will be gone too, the biggie being health insurance. And it seems to me you care a lot more about them than taking away one of the few good things they have going for them...
Author Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 Your probably right. But if you've seen what she does to her own kids. Like seriously. She tried to drown one of them. The other one she tried to beat the crap out of. And it would force her to leave Colorado and go back to OHIO Nope definitely dont seek out revenge. Karma will get her and the universe will keep its balance. Besides, it seems to me theres nothing you could do that would be worse than what she will end up doing to herself with the path shes on... Besides that, her getting kicked out the military will affect her kids bigtime too...besides her being out of a job, the dependents benefits will be gone too, the biggie being health insurance. And it seems to me you care a lot more about them than taking away one of the few good things they have going for them...
Author Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 And top that off it makes me look dirty. I didn't do anything to deserve it.
Woman In Blue Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Meh...that crap about taking the high road and living a good life being the best revenge is cool and all, but I still say you fry her ass til there's nothing left of it. It's one thing to be a dirty, lying cheater..it's quite another to KNOWINGLY pass around STDs like you're trading coupons with friends. God, she sounds like a complete dirtbag.
Author Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 Hey dude good to see you on today "The best revenge is a life well lived" Caliguy
Author Nemicron Posted November 7, 2010 Author Posted November 7, 2010 yea. lol she lives in the same city I do. sadly. And she will never have any remorse what what she's done to me or the past. or anyone currently. I tried to be nice and actually warn her to get checked out again. But she totally blew it off and didn't care and then told me I was full of drama and lies. Which it wasn't me screwing and lying Meh...that crap about taking the high road and living a good life being the best revenge is cool and all, but I still say you fry her ass til there's nothing left of it. It's one thing to be a dirty, lying cheater..it's quite another to KNOWINGLY pass around STDs like you're trading coupons with friends. God, she sounds like a complete dirtbag.
ReturnToSender Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 yea. lol she lives in the same city I do. sadly. And she will never have any remorse what what she's done to me or the past. or anyone currently. I tried to be nice and actually warn her to get checked out again. But she totally blew it off and didn't care and then told me I was full of drama and lies. Which it wasn't me screwing and lying Blaming you for drama is a deflection thing... Not that my ex did anything like what yours did, but when I found out what he was doing behind my back and went off on him, he told me I was just trying to start drama. Lets just say the next hour of his life wasnt such a pleasant one LoL
Woggle Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Call child services on her for her own kid's sake. If she tried to drown one of them and is abusive she is clearly not a fit mother.
nikayla Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 "The best revenge is a life well lived" Caliguy I totally agree.
Trojan John Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 I wouldn't bother. It seems as if she is well on the road to destruction of her own volition. I feel sorry for her children. Just keep away from her and try to live your life the best you can.
FilthMerchant Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Normally I'd say 'live well' or whatever, but if you have the opportunity to get her discharged from the military - YES! Do it. As long as you completely extricate her and thoughts of her from you r life afterwards
wicar1 Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 ok To make a long story short. My ex cheated me a crap load of time. I'm actually only able to account for atleast 4 but I know there was alot more. And mind you she is a horrible person. She's terrible to her own kids ( not my babies) And shes like a Denny's open 24hours and lots of people coming inside. And She likes to lie about everything also. She did the whole oh poor me bit and got everyone to turn on me. In the mean time never telling them about any of the crap she did. Well recently I found out the slut, after completely ruining my entire life. And leaving me a bunch of bills, gave me Herpes. Now, I have that under control and everything. And as long as I'm not having an "outbreak" I'm not gonna give it to anyone. Not that I could anyway, I'm to embarrassed about it. Even though I wasn't the one that was unfaithful. Anyway, I found out that because she's in the military. I might be able to get her discharged and thrown in jail for it. If anyone knows more about it, I'd like to know for one. Or peoples thoughts on it. Should I fry her? or do you think I should leave it alone? Well from what you say your ex most probably will ruin the lives of her kids. So I would say if there is a way to punish her....you might not only get your revenge but also can save the lives of those poor kids....So go for it if it is possible
Author Nemicron Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 something I've thought about yes. But I'm beginning to even wonder if its even worth it anymore.
alsk1029 Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 something I've thought about yes. But I'm beginning to even wonder if its even worth it anymore. It is definitely worth it. I would not even think twice to send her ass to jail!
In Like Flynn Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 The military regularly or at least yearly test their troops for STD's etc. I wonder how she gets past that?
Author Nemicron Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 They dont test for that kind of thing. And becides all she has to do is sleep with the right person and she doesn't even need to get deployed. The military regularly or at least yearly test their troops for STD's etc. I wonder how she gets past that?
Author Nemicron Posted November 8, 2010 Author Posted November 8, 2010 And I wish someone else would blow the whistle on her And mess up her life. She totally denies even having anything her excuse was she said was it was a reaction to her Birth Control. But I know she has it for sure. And the last thing she wrote on her page about me was" out with the old in with the new" So she's spreading it around to everyone including the women she's sleeping with also. The military regularly or at least yearly test their troops for STD's etc. I wonder how she gets past that?
Dexter Morgan Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Anyway, I found out that because she's in the military. I might be able to get her discharged and thrown in jail for it. If anyone knows more about it, I'd like to know for one. Or peoples thoughts on it. Should I fry her? or do you think I should leave it alone? normally I'd say let it go and live your life. but the wh0re gave you herpes. anything you could do to get her dishonorably discharged.......DO IT! She gave you something for the rest of her life.....so I say yes, get revenge.
Dexter Morgan Posted November 8, 2010 Posted November 8, 2010 Does she know she has Herpes? It is completely unethical to not tell someone they have an STD, and if she knows and yet continues to have unprotected sex then I do think you should take some action. But you should really evaluate your reasoning behind it... is it to get even with her, or to make sure she doesn't do to others what she did to you? I think anyone that transmits an STD should be taken to court for it. in the case of Herpes, I think it should be considered along the lines of assault, cruelty, fraud...whatever. in the case of HIV/AIDS...I think it should be manslaughter or murder.
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