gotasha Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 My ex dumped me back in January of this year. I read every site there was to help me get over him, blogged, got into therapy, started working out –dropped 4 dress sizes and none of that ever helped. I still love him…Over the course of the last 10 months I may have emailed him 6 times and when I did email him, he never responded to any of my emails. He shut down completely and I backed off. The break up was my fault...I lied about something really big and he left me... So my birthday was Sunday and I find this and a cupcake (something we shared) on a site that we both frequent: So, "I did what I was supposed to do" does that mean that I am forgiven? I WAS and AM who you think I was...........I just made some poor choices. Are you happy now? ...Even though you were so cruel in the end, I STILL wish you the best and I STILL miss you everyday. I hope if we ever saw each other on the street, we could smile and wave. Be happy. My response to that was I wrote back and this is what I said....I went back and forth before I decided to write back. There is much to say but I will save that for "later". I will leave you with this...it is once said that where there are ashes there was a fire......I happened, you happened, and we happened. I love you today just like yesterday and I will love you tomorrow just like last year. We will see each other again....it's just a matter of time and when we do it will be more than a smile or wave that will be shared. I told you that I love hard and I meant that. The candle inside of me flickers for you everyday. All you have to do is ignite it and I'm there. It just takes one word...HELLO! You are forgiven, am I? I miss you every day too. I just have one question...how can I be happy without you? My "poor choices" left me sad and alone. I have learned from my mistakes and that cruel person, no longer lives in me. Please believe me. Thanks for my cupcake...you're the best! Please remember....What God has put together no man can destroy...! There was a response which was: HELLO and YES but just as fast as they were there they were gone. Your thoughts....
dreamingoftigers Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 That actually sounds really promising. Update?
LifeIsGreat Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 Sounds like they probably got back together. What do you think?
PowerOfOne Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 That'd be my bet if she's no longer here. I refuse to believe she got bored with us!
LifeIsGreat Posted January 2, 2011 Posted January 2, 2011 If they did get back together, this is a good example of 'one size' does not fit all. Sometimes there is nothing [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri]intrinsically wrong with the relationship. Sometimes there has been one event that really hurt someone. Hurt can take time to heal, and a serious hurt can require a seperation of 2 people so that healing can happen.[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]But if 2 people are really good for each other and the hurt has waned, someone has to reach out at some point. In this case, he reached out after 10 months- after he had healed from her lie.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]Who reaches out to whom? I guess that depends. But if unhealthy pride is keeping one or both from reaching out- that's bad. You can't be in a realtionship with someone who has unhealthy pride.[/sIZE][/FONT]
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