List of the worst dates ever!

November 6, 2010

That totally sucks. You seem like a nice enough girl. Sorry that happened to you. I honestly dont think you did anything wrong.

There's another one:

I am seeing this guy for about 2 weeks, everything goes well. Then he says to me, well, next weekend I will take you out for a very special nice dinner, to my extra special fav place blah blah blah. So I think he is very nice and cool etc.
For 5 days he's texting me every day a few times, saying, hey I can't wait for the weekend, we will have so much fun, I really hope to make this special for you etc, etc.
So, on the day I go the hairdresser, and I'm like getting myself ready all day long because I want to have sex with him that night, LOL. Then we meet up and he says, before we go, can we just jump into this particular place, cause one of his buddies is there and he just flew back home from another continent...
And I say, well yeah sure. We get there and the place sucks, everybody is drunk and I am dressed up really nice for my elegant dinner, so I feel kinda weird... In 30 mins he drinks like a bottle of tequila and I am just sitting there embarrased. I ask my date nicely are we ready to go to the place he said he will take me, and he says no, not yet. I ask him again in about 30 mins and he says well, he changed his mind, he's not going anywhere... So I say to him I would like to leave, and he's like, well okay.
I haven't seen him ever since. Man, I remember I was in shock for weeks, aking myself what the hell happened??

November 6, 2010

LoL! Wow Elastica, and people say Im nice! I woudlnt have let him in my place to cry on my chest. I swear though, so amazing hearing about the sort of people there are out there.

And I agree, Its entirely possible I am the subject of many a guys bad date over this past year...especially when I was forcing myself to get out there but still sad over my breakup and had my heart on my ex. Oh boy...Ive said and done some weird things for sure.

Yeah, I remember I was thinking about being too nice to people sometimes, but you know the saying, you get what you give... So I am kinda like that, always try to show respect, even if they are way too weird.

Anyway, don't worry about the things you have said and done. I have myself done the same mistake, going out on a date just to prove to myself I can be with somebody else and don't care about my ex anymore. Obviously, it did not go well, and yeah, after losing my ex, I lost another absolutely cute potential boyfriend. But I think if it is meant to be between 2 ppl, it will happen, no matter what.

November 6, 2010

Well you just need to find a nice guy. A real nice guy not those types that are acting. And you'll be fine. ^_^

Yeah, I remember I was thinking about being too nice to people sometimes, but you know the saying, you get what you give... So I am kinda like that, always try to show respect, even if they are way too weird.

Anyway, don't worry about the things you have said and done. I have myself done the same mistake, going out on a date just to prove to myself I can be with somebody else and don't care about my ex anymore. Obviously, it did not go well, and yeah, after losing my ex, I lost another absolutely cute potential boyfriend. But I think if it is meant to be between 2 ppl, it will happen, no matter what.

November 6, 2010

I went on this one date when I was young and naive. (and Pentecostal)

I used to volunteer at this church that would have a dinner for the homeless from the local drop-in center. There would often be bible school students training to be youth pastors there doing the volunteering as well.

One night I was with a group of the new youth pastors that were being assigned. We hung out and talked, later the group dwindled down to me and one other guy. We had a fun time talking, he had a neat sense of humor. He wasn't exactly my type or anything.

He asked me out and I thought "okay." We made an arrangement to meet at a Transit station, neither one of us had a car.

So he gets there and says, "I've only got about 9 bucks, where do you want to go?" At first I thought he was kidding. Um, okay, well we can just walk around or whatever. So we end up in this little greasy spoon that he frequents where I pay for my omlette. He starts talking about where he is from and his sister who got him arrested (wtf?).

So I listen, and listen and listen. He tells me that he got arrested for driving down a suburban boulevard in stolen vehicle while him and his friend used a slingshot to take out car windows causing thousands of dollars in damage. His court date was coming up in a couple of weeks.

At this point I am kind of shocked and confused that he is supposed to become a youth pastor. That's when I find out that he is not a youth pastor at all, he was one of the homeless guys that was hanging out with the whole group of them. He wants to become a youth pastor someday, but he has to clear up his "legal troubles."

Meanwhile somewhere in there, this short little bald woman keeps peering in the windows at us and I ask if he knows her, or what she is up to. He tells me that he knows her from the shelter and that she is really annoying.

I don't say much, and we are on our way back to the train station through the +15 sidewalks when we turn a corner and he tells me. "The cameras don't see this spot here, when it's cold like this we use it to [make love], do you want to mess around?"

WTF?? I gently inform him that I really don't do that kind of stuff on a first date and that I wouldn't be doing it in a public walkway anyways, cameras or not.

Then he seems really happy about something, like he just got the biggest sausage in the casserole. He tells me that he thinks I am the greatest and after he gets out of jail (because he is quite sure that that is where he si going) he can't wait to get together again.

Then we see the little bald woman again and I ask "is she following us?" And he tells me "yeah probably, she wants a piece of you." And I ask why. It turns out that she is his ex-girlfriend and she has some kind of dwarfism. (I am not making this up!) And that Mr. Charm here is still in her mind, "her's." When she gets that I am noticing her in a big way she starts yelling at him that he better get his "ass back to the shelter because it is almost 10." That was curfew there I guess.

He tells her to back off and that he doesn't care. They start getting into and argument and I tell him "it's okay just go." She starts yelling something at me and I just ignore her. He then asks if he could stay at my place instead. I tell him that I am still living with my parents and that it wouldn't work. He begs me to just ask them. I say no and that I have to work early in the morning. He understands because he just lost his job at the theatre for stealing something (I can't remember what).

A few months later I get a call from my Dad saying "Trevor says he just got out of jail and can't wait to get together with you. Do you want his new number?" I laugh and say "What do you think?"

November 6, 2010

Wow, LOL I've had problems But I wouldnt keep getting into trouble like that. what a douche bag. I'm sorry you had to deal with all that and the dwarf. lol

I went on this one date when I was young and naive. (and Pentecostal)

I used to volunteer at this church that would have a dinner for the homeless from the local drop-in center. There would often be bible school students training to be youth pastors there doing the volunteering as well.
One night I was with a group of the new youth pastors that were being assigned. We hung out and talked, later the group dwindled down to me and one other guy. We had a fun time talking, he had a neat sense of humor. He wasn't exactly my type or anything.

He asked me out and I thought "okay." We made an arrangement to meet at a Transit station, neither one of us had a car.

So he gets there and says, "I've only got about 9 bucks, where do you want to go?" At first I thought he was kidding. Um, okay, well we can just walk around or whatever. So we end up in this little greasy spoon that he frequents where I pay for my omlette. He starts talking about where he is from and his sister who got him arrested (wtf?).

So I listen, and listen and listen. He tells me that he got arrested for driving down a suburban boulevard in stolen vehicle while him and his friend used a slingshot to take out car windows causing thousands of dollars in damage. His court date was coming up in a couple of weeks.

At this point I am kind of shocked and confused that he is supposed to become a youth pastor. That's when I find out that he is not a youth pastor at all, he was one of the homeless guys that was hanging out with the whole group of them. He wants to become a youth pastor someday, but he has to clear up his "legal troubles."

Meanwhile somewhere in there, this short little bald woman keeps peering in the windows at us and I ask if he knows her, or what she is up to. He tells me that he knows her from the shelter and that she is really annoying.

I don't say much, and we are on our way back to the train station through the +15 sidewalks when we turn a corner and he tells me. "The cameras don't see this spot here, when it's cold like this we use it to [make love], do you want to mess around?"

WTF?? I gently inform him that I really don't do that kind of stuff on a first date and that I wouldn't be doing it in a public walkway anyways, cameras or not.

Then he seems really happy about something, like he just got the biggest sausage in the casserole. He tells me that he thinks I am the greatest and after he gets out of jail (because he is quite sure that that is where he si going) he can't wait to get together again.

Then we see the little bald woman again and I ask "is she following us?" And he tells me "yeah probably, she wants a piece of you." And I ask why. It turns out that she is his ex-girlfriend and she has some kind of dwarfism. (I am not making this up!) And that Mr. Charm here is still in her mind, "her's." When she gets that I am noticing her in a big way she starts yelling at him that he better get his "ass back to the shelter because it is almost 10." That was curfew there I guess.

He tells her to back off and that he doesn't care. They start getting into and argument and I tell him "it's okay just go." She starts yelling something at me and I just ignore her. He then asks if he could stay at my place instead. I tell him that I am still living with my parents and that it wouldn't work. He begs me to just ask them. I say no and that I have to work early in the morning. He understands because he just lost his job at the theatre for stealing something (I can't remember what).

A few months later I get a call from my Dad saying "Trevor says he just got out of jail and can't wait to get together with you. Do you want his new number?" I laugh and say "What do you think?"

November 6, 2010

My first date in school was with this cute blonde I had been interested in for awhile. Since I was new in the area, I hadn't gotten a feel for the kids that atttended my high school. I watched this blonde for a few weeks and eventually asked her out. After I told my friends about scheduling the date, they all started laughing and in unison said "good luck." I asked why and all I received was eyes rolling.

Fast forward to the date, we were sitting in a movie theater parking lot after the movie was over, waiting to leave so we could go to dinner. All of the sudden she rolls down the window at starts yelling at the other cars, telling them to get the f*** out of the way. I politely asked her to keep it down, I don't want to be embarrassed. She gets depressed and pulls out a lighter and starts to burn herself with it. I screamed J**** C****, what are you doing? Her response was she needed to be punished for screaming like that because she liked me. Holy s*** is all I could say.

Needless to say, I lost my wallet in the theater and didn't go to dinner.

November 6, 2010

My first date in school was with this cute blonde I had been interested in for awhile. Since I was new in the area, I hadn't gotten a feel for the kids that atttended my high school. I watched this blonde for a few weeks and eventually asked her out. After I told my friends about scheduling the date, they all started laughing and in unison said "good luck." I asked why and all I received was eyes rolling.

Fast forward to the date, we were sitting in a movie theater parking lot after the movie was over, waiting to leave so we could go to dinner. All of the sudden she rolls down the window at starts yelling at the other cars, telling them to get the f*** out of the way. I politely asked her to keep it down, I don't want to be embarrassed. She gets depressed and pulls out a lighter and starts to burn herself with it. I screamed J**** C****, what are you doing? Her response was she needed to be punished for screaming like that because she liked me. Holy s*** is all I could say.

Needless to say, I lost my wallet in the theater and didn't go to dinner.

hahahahahaha.....

November 6, 2010

Woah Dreaming... I seriously dont even know what to say. That sounds like something out of a movie! LoL.... WoW!

November 6, 2010

Now thats really bad also. Geez. I wouldn't know how to react either.

My first date in school was with this cute blonde I had been interested in for awhile. Since I was new in the area, I hadn't gotten a feel for the kids that atttended my high school. I watched this blonde for a few weeks and eventually asked her out. After I told my friends about scheduling the date, they all started laughing and in unison said "good luck." I asked why and all I received was eyes rolling.

Fast forward to the date, we were sitting in a movie theater parking lot after the movie was over, waiting to leave so we could go to dinner. All of the sudden she rolls down the window at starts yelling at the other cars, telling them to get the f*** out of the way. I politely asked her to keep it down, I don't want to be embarrassed. She gets depressed and pulls out a lighter and starts to burn herself with it. I screamed J**** C****, what are you doing? Her response was she needed to be punished for screaming like that because she liked me. Holy s*** is all I could say.

Needless to say, I lost my wallet in the theater and didn't go to dinner.

November 7, 2010

My first date in school was with this cute blonde I had been interested in for awhile. Since I was new in the area, I hadn't gotten a feel for the kids that atttended my high school. I watched this blonde for a few weeks and eventually asked her out. After I told my friends about scheduling the date, they all started laughing and in unison said "good luck." I asked why and all I received was eyes rolling.

Fast forward to the date, we were sitting in a movie theater parking lot after the movie was over, waiting to leave so we could go to dinner. All of the sudden she rolls down the window at starts yelling at the other cars, telling them to get the f*** out of the way. I politely asked her to keep it down, I don't want to be embarrassed. She gets depressed and pulls out a lighter and starts to burn herself with it. I screamed J**** C****, what are you doing? Her response was she needed to be punished for screaming like that because she liked me. Holy s*** is all I could say.

Needless to say, I lost my wallet in the theater and didn't go to dinner.

You win! I wouldn't trade you the hobo and the dwarf for that! LOL

November 7, 2010

Wow, LOL I've had problems But I wouldnt keep getting into trouble like that. what a douche bag. I'm sorry you had to deal with all that and the dwarf. lol

Looking back on it (it was about 10 years ago) I think we just kept ambling along because I was so in shock that I didn't know what would happen next. I pass that greasy spoon a lot (it is on a major route) and just wonder why the hell I finished that date.

I find it quite funny to look back on now, I actually shared the post with my husband and although he knows I had a weird date start at that "restaurant" he never knew the whole story.

He was homeless when I met him so he's been teasing me saying that I have a "type."

November 7, 2010

LOL Well I will behave myself and pass on a joke. ^_^ But yea thats terrible.

Looking back on it (it was about 10 years ago) I think we just kept ambling along because I was so in shock that I didn't know what would happen next. I pass that greasy spoon a lot (it is on a major route) and just wonder why the hell I finished that date.

I find it quite funny to look back on now, I actually shared the post with my husband and although he knows I had a weird date start at that "restaurant" he never knew the whole story.

He was homeless when I met him so he's been teasing me saying that I have a "type."

November 7, 2010

I haven't had bad dates. But I have had horrible cases, where I've attracted some interesting people.

There was this one time, where a man had interest in me. He first complimented me, told me I was attractive and asked me If I thought he was cute, etc.

He then asked me "are you attracted to black men?" (He was a white man).

I told him that color has never been an issue. He then responded, "If you are then I'm not interested." I was shocked completely.

I didn't have interest at him since I saw him.

He then began to call me names such as "ugly, not attractive." All because I believe that you can connect to anyone regardless of color.

I sure attract some crazies. So glad I'm not out dating.

November 7, 2010

I know how that is. I've probably dated alot of crazies.

I haven't had bad dates. But I have had horrible cases, where I've attracted some interesting people.

There was this one time, where a man had interest in me. He first complimented me, told me I was attractive and asked me If I thought he was cute, etc.

He then asked me "are you attracted to black men?" (He was a white man).
I told him that color has never been an issue. He then responded, "If you are then I'm not interested." I was shocked completely.

I didn't have interest at him since I saw him.

He then began to call me names such as "ugly, not attractive." All because I believe that you can connect to anyone regardless of color.

I sure attract some crazies. So glad I'm not out dating.

November 7, 2010

I know how that is. I've probably dated alot of crazies.

I've been in the same relationship for quite some time, I'm just glad that I'm not out dating again. I happen to attract all the crazies while I'm taken, id be afraid at what I attract while single.

Worlds a funny place..

November 7, 2010

I haven't had bad dates. But I have had horrible cases, where I've attracted some interesting people.

There was this one time, where a man had interest in me. He first complimented me, told me I was attractive and asked me If I thought he was cute, etc.

He then asked me "are you attracted to black men?" (He was a white man).
I told him that color has never been an issue. He then responded, "If you are then I'm not interested." I was shocked completely.

I didn't have interest at him since I saw him.

He then began to call me names such as "ugly, not attractive." All because I believe that you can connect to anyone regardless of color.

I sure attract some crazies. So glad I'm not out dating.

hahaha, Rinah. That made me laugh. Sort of reminds me of an experience I had on a date with a black guy.

'So... you ever slept with a black guy before?'

'Ummm... I have actually.'

'Oh yeah, you like black men don't you.'

'I guess... I like all races.'

'Why do girls llike black men so much anyway. Too good looking hey? '

*no comment from me*

'So, are we really better in bed??'

At this point I wanted him to STFU. He was SO smug and would not shut up about being black and how black guys are superior. Such a douche.

November 7, 2010

hahaha, Rinah. That made me laugh. Sort of reminds me of an experience I had on a date with a black guy.

'So... you ever slept with a black guy before?'
'Ummm... I have actually.'
'Oh yeah, you like black men don't you.'
'I guess... I like all races.'
'Why do girls llike black men so much anyway. Too good looking hey? '
*no comment from me*
'So, are we really better in bed??'

At this point I wanted him to STFU. He was SO smug and would not shut up about being black and how black guys are superior. Such a douche.

ahah, you should have put him in his place!

That's ridiculous, confidence is fine, but ego is just terrible.

But then again, maybe he was trying to be playful. Who knows with people now a days.

I once rejected this man, because he was a bit too old for me. He was a good 10+ years, and at the time I wasn't comfortable with the idea of dating anyone over 5-6 years. I told him nicely that the age difference was a bit much.

He continued to contact with me saying "please give me a chance! please please!" It got to the point where I had no choice to be a bit rude to him and tell him to back off.

After that he began to become insulting, and giving me very rude sexual harassment messages. "your face looks perfect for (____)"

He also would stalk me online, visiting any pages I owned. My last lines to him were "Get over yourself, I rejected you, bruised your ego, move on".

I haven't heard from him since, and I am sooo glad! Dating is crazy sometimes.

November 8, 2010

WEll lol yea thats really bad. But my ex slept with 2 or more black guys. And I saw them. both of them were people you'd find off the street. But then again my ex is a slut. She'd do anything

November 8, 2010

I've never really had a bad date, to be honest

November 8, 2010

I haven't either.

November 8, 2010

My worst date ever was with a dude from lavalife.

We started off the date okay, until he had a couple of drinks. He accused me of liking the attention from the waiter that was clearly GAY. He was adamant that the dude was flirting with me and went off on a tirade that I was an attention whore. I wanted to go back to my car and as we were walking back I said something random and innocent that set him off and he called me stupid and grabbed me by my shoulders and shook me like a rag doll.

There was a pub in view and I suggested we go have a drink because I wanted to be around people because I was scared. We walked in and some guy on the microphone at a comedy/open night night started centering me out. I cringed, and my date got all riled up again. I had a plan to go to the bathroom and run away. I excused myself and looked for an exit on my way. I was sitting on the toilet trying to pee and I heard the door to the washroom open- then I saw his feet outside the stall. When I came out, he tried to make out with me in the women's bathroom.

He was such a scary guy! At some point, he had to pee- and he kept saying "if I go, you're going to leave"... I assured him he was wrong. As soon as he went to the bathroom, I booked it through the kitchen and took off.

True story:sick:

November 8, 2010

Dang Dlish....thats a live wire right there! Good escape! lol

November 8, 2010

WOW ok thats REALLY BAD. I'm sorry you had go through that. Why do they let these people roam on the streets. Did he ever try to call you again?

My worst date ever was with a dude from lavalife.

We started off the date okay, until he had a couple of drinks. He accused me of liking the attention from the waiter that was clearly GAY. He was adamant that the dude was flirting with me and went off on a tirade that I was an attention whore. I wanted to go back to my car and as we were walking back I said something random and innocent that set him off and he called me stupid and grabbed me by my shoulders and shook me like a rag doll.

There was a pub in view and I suggested we go have a drink because I wanted to be around people because I was scared. We walked in and some guy on the microphone at a comedy/open night night started centering me out. I cringed, and my date got all riled up again. I had a plan to go to the bathroom and run away. I excused myself and looked for an exit on my way. I was sitting on the toilet trying to pee and I heard the door to the washroom open- then I saw his feet outside the stall. When I came out, he tried to make out with me in the women's bathroom.

He was such a scary guy! At some point, he had to pee- and he kept saying "if I go, you're going to leave"... I assured him he was wrong. As soon as he went to the bathroom, I booked it through the kitchen and took off.

True story:sick:

November 8, 2010

Dang Dlish....thats a live wire right there! Good escape! lol

It was funny in hindsight:p He was bat shyte crazy. I was in shock that people like him existed outside of mental institutions. He was such an angry, angry guy.

WOW ok thats REALLY BAD. I'm sorry you had go through that. Why do they let these people roam on the streets. Did he ever try to call you again?

He totally did, the very next day, lol. That was about 6 years ago. That experience tainted my online dating entuhusiasm!

November 8, 2010

My worst date ever was with a dude from lavalife.

We started off the date okay, until he had a couple of drinks. He accused me of liking the attention from the waiter that was clearly GAY. He was adamant that the dude was flirting with me and went off on a tirade that I was an attention whore. I wanted to go back to my car and as we were walking back I said something random and innocent that set him off and he called me stupid and grabbed me by my shoulders and shook me like a rag doll.

There was a pub in view and I suggested we go have a drink because I wanted to be around people because I was scared. We walked in and some guy on the microphone at a comedy/open night night started centering me out. I cringed, and my date got all riled up again. I had a plan to go to the bathroom and run away. I excused myself and looked for an exit on my way. I was sitting on the toilet trying to pee and I heard the door to the washroom open- then I saw his feet outside the stall. When I came out, he tried to make out with me in the women's bathroom.

He was such a scary guy! At some point, he had to pee- and he kept saying "if I go, you're going to leave"... I assured him he was wrong. As soon as he went to the bathroom, I booked it through the kitchen and took off.

True story:sick:

Wow D-Lish, I'm so happy you got out of there when you did. That's unreal.

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