List of the worst dates ever!

November 6, 2010

Sorry I'm still trying to wake up. I didn't sleep well last night

November 6, 2010

This wasnt a first date, but after Id been with my guy for a few years (not my recent ex...the one before.) We went out to dinner at this really nice place, I was pretty excited about the place too I have to say cause I heard a lot about it, it was so pretty inside and the menu looked great, no idea what to get and just all bouncy about it.

My guy was being kind of weird, but we'd had a long day at work so it didnt phase me. Anyway, the waiter came up to ask what we'd like to drink, and I exclaimed...wow I dont know! Can I have a minute? He said of course and walked away, I look towards my guy and he looks like hes fuming. Tells me that we are leaving, that he cant stand sitting there watching me with that attitude, and how I was incredibly rude to the waiter. I was so stunned I just started back at him, and he snapped, we are leaving NOW! Stood up and walked out. Holy cow....!

We spent the eve in silence, and then out of the blue he was in a good mood again, sighed about how we have to eat fast food cause nothing is open now and was his usual joking self. Hed never acted so wierd before or since... To this day I have NO idea what happened or what set him off!

Actually looking back, a teeeny part of me feels like he must have seen someone at the restaurant that knew him, and caused the mini-scene to get out of there asap. But thats just a guess...!

November 6, 2010

This wasnt a first date, but after Id been with my guy for a few years (not my recent ex...the one before.) We went out to dinner at this really nice place, I was pretty excited about the place too I have to say cause I heard a lot about it, it was so pretty inside and the menu looked great, no idea what to get and just all bouncy about it.

My guy was being kind of weird, but we'd had a long day at work so it didnt phase me. Anyway, the waiter came up to ask what we'd like to drink, and I exclaimed...wow I dont know! Can I have a minute? He said of course and walked away, I look towards my guy and he looks like hes fuming. Tells me that we are leaving, that he cant stand sitting there watching me with that attitude, and how I was incredibly rude to the waiter. I was so stunned I just started back at him, and he snapped, we are leaving NOW! Stood up and walked out. Holy cow....!

We spent the eve in silence, and then out of the blue he was in a good mood again, sighed about how we have to eat fast food cause nothing is open now and was his usual joking self. Hed never acted so wierd before or since... To this day I have NO idea what happened or what set him off!

Actually looking back, a teeeny part of me feels like he must have seen someone at the restaurant that knew him, and caused the mini-scene to get out of there asap. But thats just a guess...!

Wow, I would have broken up with him that night. How incredibly rude! who is he to talk to you, a grown woman, like that?

November 6, 2010

Yea thats really weird. I'm think your right on knowing someone there. But Maybe he was menstruating or something. *shrugs*

This wasnt a first date, but after Id been with my guy for a few years (not my recent ex...the one before.) We went out to dinner at this really nice place, I was pretty excited about the place too I have to say cause I heard a lot about it, it was so pretty inside and the menu looked great, no idea what to get and just all bouncy about it.

My guy was being kind of weird, but we'd had a long day at work so it didnt phase me. Anyway, the waiter came up to ask what we'd like to drink, and I exclaimed...wow I dont know! Can I have a minute? He said of course and walked away, I look towards my guy and he looks like hes fuming. Tells me that we are leaving, that he cant stand sitting there watching me with that attitude, and how I was incredibly rude to the waiter. I was so stunned I just started back at him, and he snapped, we are leaving NOW! Stood up and walked out. Holy cow....!

We spent the eve in silence, and then out of the blue he was in a good mood again, sighed about how we have to eat fast food cause nothing is open now and was his usual joking self. Hed never acted so wierd before or since... To this day I have NO idea what happened or what set him off!

Actually looking back, a teeeny part of me feels like he must have seen someone at the restaurant that knew him, and caused the mini-scene to get out of there asap. But thats just a guess...!

November 6, 2010

Yea thats really weird. I'm think your right on knowing someone there. But Maybe he was menstruating or something. *shrugs*

:lmao: This thread has given me quite a few laughs...sadly I can't share any experiences that are even close to anything posted here. But my worst date ever was with the first guy I met in real life from OKCupid. He was a year older than me; in his pictures he seemed pretty cute. Our match percentage was in the 60s but we had pretty good conversations, despite the fact that he started calling me pet names before we even met and he kept "joking" about going in for a kiss on our first meeting.

When we met I found out that he was severely prematurely balding--the pictures he had online were either with a hat or earlier ones where he had much more hair. That really turned me off. His voice was really meek and he mumbled quite a bit. We went to a restaurant and split an appetizer; I wasn't too hungry. The conversation went pretty well until he started spouting some commonly-heard-on-LS bitter rhetoric. I made an excuse to get out early, saying I had a project to finish for school. He didn't go in for a kiss, fortunately. He IMed me later that night saying, "So what do you think?" I just said, "No." and signed off.

November 6, 2010

This wasnt a first date, but after Id been with my guy for a few years (not my recent ex...the one before.) We went out to dinner at this really nice place, I was pretty excited about the place too I have to say cause I heard a lot about it, it was so pretty inside and the menu looked great, no idea what to get and just all bouncy about it.

Obviously someplace that he took another GF before you and it carried significance.. and or maybe she was there or he just didn't feel right because it was their place and he was sharing it with a new GF...

November 6, 2010

Well Thats crummy also. Sorry it didn't work out. But glad you like my thread. ^_^

:lmao: This thread has given me quite a few laughs...sadly I can't share any experiences that are even close to anything posted here. But my worst date ever was with the first guy I met in real life from OKCupid. He was a year older than me; in his pictures he seemed pretty cute. Our match percentage was in the 60s but we had pretty good conversations, despite the fact that he started calling me pet names before we even met and he kept "joking" about going in for a kiss on our first meeting.

When we met I found out that he was severely prematurely balding--the pictures he had online were either with a hat or earlier ones where he had much more hair. That really turned me off. His voice was really meek and he mumbled quite a bit. We went to a restaurant and split an appetizer; I wasn't too hungry. The conversation went pretty well until he started spouting some commonly-heard-on-LS bitter rhetoric. I made an excuse to get out early, saying I had a project to finish for school. He didn't go in for a kiss, fortunately. He IMed me later that night saying, "So what do you think?" I just said, "No." and signed off.

November 6, 2010

Obviously someplace that he took another GF before you and it carried significance.. and or maybe she was there or he just didn't feel right because it was their place and he was sharing it with a new GF...

Well, actually we were out of town on business at the time... he had never been to the place before either. I didnt know it then but he had and still has gf's all over the place, thats why I kinda think he saw someone he knew and felt he needed to find an excuse to get out of there.

Recently, he took me and his gf out for dinner, and while we were walking to our table she asked him, do you know that woman? and he said what woman? And she said as we were walking by a certain table, a woman looked up at him like she knew him, was staring him down and eying me and her kind of suspiciously. He looked around...and feigned innocence..but the woman was still staring him down. Knowing what I do now...I wouldnt be surprised...

November 6, 2010

Well Thats crummy also. Sorry it didn't work out. But glad you like my thread. ^_^

Yeah this thread is fun Its cool too to look back on what was a crummy moment, be able to laugh about it, and be thankful its over! LoL

November 6, 2010

Thats terrible. I never understood doing that to people or even have an affair. Thats awful well atleast your not still with him.

Well, actually we were out of town on business at the time... he had never been to the place before either. I didnt know it then but he had and still has gf's all over the place, thats why I kinda think he saw someone he knew and felt he needed to find an excuse to get out of there.

Recently, he took me and his gf out for dinner, and while we were walking to our table she asked him, do you know that woman? and he said what woman? And she said as we were walking by a certain table, a woman looked up at him like she knew him, was staring him down and eying me and her kind of suspiciously. He looked around...and feigned innocence..but the woman was still staring him down. Knowing what I do now...I wouldnt be surprised...

November 6, 2010

Well I just maybe it would help some people realize they aren't alone also. I'm glad I could help. ^_^

Yeah this thread is fun Its cool too to look back on what was a crummy moment, be able to laugh about it, and be thankful its over! LoL

November 6, 2010

Thats terrible. I never understood doing that to people or even have an affair. Thats awful well atleast your not still with him.

Yeah he was quite something... and still is. Was hard to come to terms with everything, but now totally over it. He and I amazingly enough are very good friends. Sad part is, my recent ex is pretty much exactly like this.

I still remember a time we went out to a restaurant we hadnt been to together in a few months...super expensive sort where the bill is never less than a couple hundred so its not like a place you just go to whenever. The waiter was so happy to see him though saying ah! my favorite customer! I was like....wow, interesting reaction considering wed only been here twice. He fumbled around trying to say that he didnt understand why the waiter was being so friendly... But when he came back around and cheerfully asked if he would be having his usual, I shot my ex a look of what was probably pure death..and the waiter slinked away.

There was another place we used to go to alll the time, we had an awesome waiter that always took care of us and was super sweet, we were there so much hed comp us wine or dessert, cool place cool guy and we loved it there...all of a sudden he decided he didnt wanna go there anymore cause he just wanted to talk to me, and acted annoyed saying he didnt want this waiter always coming around to talk to us. After awhile, I insisted I wanted to go there cause there was something they had that I was in the mood for...the wiater was totally standoffish to us the whole night. Naive me was like...wow, what happened to him? He keeps looking at me as if he just found out I have some terminal illness or something. We didnt go back there since then.

Of course now I know why...jeeeeez lol

November 6, 2010

Wow what a douche bag. To think you'd didn't even get a fee desert. lol j/k But seriously your ex is a putz. I've seen there is this thread about having an affair. And people in there are like it totally cool. Like something you put on to go out dancing for the weekend. I couldn't take it. I had to comment and said something like if your that bad off with you Husband/wife or BF/GF then leave dont play this stupid game with cheating. its dumb.

Yeah he was quite something... and still is. Was hard to come to terms with everything, but now totally over it. He and I amazingly enough are very good friends. Sad part is, my recent ex is pretty much exactly like this.

I still remember a time we went out to a restaurant we hadnt been to together in a few months...super expensive sort where the bill is never less than a couple hundred so its not like a place you just go to whenever. The waiter was so happy to see him though saying ah! my favorite customer! I was like....wow, interesting reaction considering wed only been here twice. He fumbled around trying to say that he didnt understand why the waiter was being so friendly... But when he came back around and cheerfully asked if he would be having his usual, I shot my ex a look of what was probably pure death..and the waiter slinked away.

There was another place we used to go to alll the time, we had an awesome waiter that always took care of us and was super sweet, we were there so much hed comp us wine or dessert, cool place cool guy and we loved it there...all of a sudden he decided he didnt wanna go there anymore cause he just wanted to talk to me, and acted annoyed saying he didnt want this waiter always coming around to talk to us. After awhile, I insisted I wanted to go there cause there was something they had that I was in the mood for...the wiater was totally standoffish to us the whole night. Naive me was like...wow, what happened to him? He keeps looking at me as if he just found out I have some terminal illness or something. We didnt go back there since then.

Of course now I know why...jeeeeez lol

November 6, 2010

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November 6, 2010

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November 6, 2010

LMFAO Art Critic!!! Yeah, thats prolly the key to it right there....hah!

Yeah Nemicron, I dont get it. I seem to attract serial cheaters, and thats sort of why Im at the point where Im still even at ends with my ex...every so often I get in the mode of may as well with the devil I know then get to know a new guy who will do the same thing anway.

For whatever reason, Im picking these sort of guys, its no coincidence that theyve all done this to me...gotta figure out how and why and break that habit. Easier said than done though!

November 6, 2010

WEll I know the feeling. I end up with the crazies. Like they come out from under the rocks or something

LMFAO Art Critic!!! Yeah, thats prolly the key to it right there....hah!

Yeah Nemicron, I dont get it. I seem to attract serial cheaters, and thats sort of why Im at the point where Im still even at ends with my ex...every so often I get in the mode of may as well with the devil I know then get to know a new guy who will do the same thing anway.

For whatever reason, Im picking these sort of guys, its no coincidence that theyve all done this to me...gotta figure out how and why and break that habit. Easier said than done though!

November 6, 2010

Reading all these "funny" stories I am thinking about some creepy/weird/funny things that happened to me... and wonder how would my dates describe me on the same nights...LOL

Anyway:

This guy took me to a pool bar for drinks (I said it was OK) before we would go to see a movie. In the bar he gets in argument with the bartender about the glasses, because he wants bigger ones. The argument goes on for about 5 mins, not long enough for me to run away immediately. As we sit and talk he starts to say ... aww my ex recently left me, aww not so long ago this person passed away in my family etc etc, so I really start to feel sorry for him.

After drinks we go to see a movie but we are late for the last show, so he gets into argument with people around (cleaners) saying there should be another movie today... When we leave the cinema I tell him politely I would like to go home, he says no noo, lets go to his place, I say no, I would like to go home. He takes me home and says he wants to come in, and Im like wtf? so I tell him, not tonight. Then he goes again, aww, my ex just left me, this person died in my family etc etc. Then he says he just wants to put his head on my chest and cry, so I let him do it. And he's there like that for 30 mins, until I tell him OK, bye.

November 6, 2010

LoL! Wow Elastica, and people say Im nice! I woudlnt have let him in my place to cry on my chest. I swear though, so amazing hearing about the sort of people there are out there.

And I agree, Its entirely possible I am the subject of many a guys bad date over this past year...especially when I was forcing myself to get out there but still sad over my breakup and had my heart on my ex. Oh boy...Ive said and done some weird things for sure.

November 6, 2010

I think I agree. I would have handed him a tissue and closed the door and locked it with a bat in my hand or perhaps something sharp. lol

Reading all these "funny" stories I am thinking about some creepy/weird/funny things that happened to me... and wonder how would my dates describe me on the same nights...LOL

Anyway:
This guy took me to a pool bar for drinks (I said it was OK) before we would go to see a movie. In the bar he gets in argument with the bartender about the glasses, because he wants bigger ones. The argument goes on for about 5 mins, not long enough for me to run away immediately. As we sit and talk he starts to say ... aww my ex recently left me, aww not so long ago this person passed away in my family etc etc, so I really start to feel sorry for him.
After drinks we go to see a movie but we are late for the last show, so he gets into argument with people around (cleaners) saying there should be another movie today... When we leave the cinema I tell him politely I would like to go home, he says no noo, lets go to his place, I say no, I would like to go home. He takes me home and says he wants to come in, and Im like wtf? so I tell him, not tonight. Then he goes again, aww, my ex just left me, this person died in my family etc etc. Then he says he just wants to put his head on my chest and cry, so I let him do it. And he's there like that for 30 mins, until I tell him OK, bye.

November 6, 2010

I went on a date with a 'scene girl' who always referred to herself in the third person, was shocked when i didn't buy $80 of clothing for her, flashed me her down under after telling me she got a Brazilian wax done and 'didn't want it to go to waste', and said that if i bought a skirt for her she would be my girlfriend. Oh, this was all one date. Oh the characters you meet online!

November 6, 2010

lol yea thats really bad also. lol

I went on a date with a 'scene girl' who always referred to herself in the third person, was shocked when i didn't buy $80 of clothing for her, flashed me her down under after telling me she got a Brazilian wax done and 'didn't want it to go to waste', and said that if i bought a skirt for her she would be my girlfriend. Oh, this was all one date. Oh the characters you meet online!

November 6, 2010

I've got another one I just thought of. I went out on a date ith this girl. No to be honest she was something to writ home about but she was nice. And I went back to her apt and were just sitting on her bed talking when I layied back to stretch my back and I found that there was a bunch of crap sticking into my back. So I started to pull this stuff out from under her blanket and it was like pulling one dildo or vibrator after another. Before long she noticed what I was doing. There must have been like atleast 6 I pulled out. And there was still more. So she turns bright red. And I'm looking at her with the slight grin on my face. And I remember saying, "umm long night?"

She ended up turning so red and retreated into her bathroom for like 15 mins. But here's what I think was funny. I swear to this day. I heard buzzing going off in the the bathroom during those 15 mins. lol

November 6, 2010

There's another one:

I am seeing this guy for about 2 weeks, everything goes well. Then he says to me, well, next weekend I will take you out for a very special nice dinner, to my extra special fav place blah blah blah. So I think he is very nice and cool etc.

For 5 days he's texting me every day a few times, saying, hey I can't wait for the weekend, we will have so much fun, I really hope to make this special for you etc, etc.

So, on the day I go the hairdresser, and I'm like getting myself ready all day long because I want to have sex with him that night, LOL. Then we meet up and he says, before we go, can we just jump into this particular place, cause one of his buddies is there and he just flew back home from another continent...

And I say, well yeah sure. We get there and the place sucks, everybody is drunk and I am dressed up really nice for my elegant dinner, so I feel kinda weird... In 30 mins he drinks like a bottle of tequila and I am just sitting there embarrased. I ask my date nicely are we ready to go to the place he said he will take me, and he says no, not yet. I ask him again in about 30 mins and he says well, he changed his mind, he's not going anywhere... So I say to him I would like to leave, and he's like, well okay.

I haven't seen him ever since. Man, I remember I was in shock for weeks, aking myself what the hell happened??

November 6, 2010

Thats... weird. Wow...what a let down that guy was!!!

There's another one:

I am seeing this guy for about 2 weeks, everything goes well. Then he says to me, well, next weekend I will take you out for a very special nice dinner, to my extra special fav place blah blah blah. So I think he is very nice and cool etc.
For 5 days he's texting me every day a few times, saying, hey I can't wait for the weekend, we will have so much fun, I really hope to make this special for you etc, etc.
So, on the day I go the hairdresser, and I'm like getting myself ready all day long because I want to have sex with him that night, LOL. Then we meet up and he says, before we go, can we just jump into this particular place, cause one of his buddies is there and he just flew back home from another continent...
And I say, well yeah sure. We get there and the place sucks, everybody is drunk and I am dressed up really nice for my elegant dinner, so I feel kinda weird... In 30 mins he drinks like a bottle of tequila and I am just sitting there embarrased. I ask my date nicely are we ready to go to the place he said he will take me, and he says no, not yet. I ask him again in about 30 mins and he says well, he changed his mind, he's not going anywhere... So I say to him I would like to leave, and he's like, well okay.
I haven't seen him ever since. Man, I remember I was in shock for weeks, aking myself what the hell happened??

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