loveispatient Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I think it's weird after being with my boyfriend for over a year that he hardly, if ever brings me around his friends. i can count about 4 times where he has brought me around his friends. I feel like he makes it so he keeps me, the girlfriend, and him hanging out with his friends two completely different worlds. This to me is weird and not normal. let me know what the rest of you think.
LoveLace Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 Tell him how you feel...in a nice way anyhow. Just say you would like to get to know his friends better and be included a little more. But also say you don't mind if it's only him and his friends once in a while. How old is he? Guys in their 20's still have many single buddies, usually. So guy time doesn't include girlfriends as much as it does when we start to get a little older. Do the other guys have girlfriends come along often? Also does he enjoy hanging out with YOUR friends? If he shys away from that most of the time, then there is a commitment issue, as in he isn't totally committed yet. But if he's around your social circle frequently and comfortable there, he's probably just in a place in his life where bringing the girls around the guys isn't a routine thing yet.
LisaLee Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 My boyfriend's best friend does that with his girlfriend. It's kind of odd, it's like he compartmentalizes his friends and his girlfriend. It could be that your bf is uncomfortable with his friends seeing him in the boyfriend role... especially if they have never seen that side of him.
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