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Please help me! I'm so bored on fri and sat if I don't have a date and besides I don't always want to have a date. I really want to enjoy my life while I'm single in the meantime but I don't know what to do. I'm so bored sometimes. I'm turning into a LS junkie cause I don't have a lot going on. So what are things to do on the weekend when u are not in a rel. I know I'm not alone on this...PLEASE HELP1111

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If I don't have to work my typical Saturday looks like this:

 

I sleep late, go get breakfast with a buddy at 3pm, waste some time on the internet, take a bath, go get dinner and drinks with friends.

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Dont you have close friends?

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Nope you are not alone. I am single, can't get a date with someone I would like to date. Do you know how I spend my weekends? Especially since I am not in school right now.

 

I am either at my brother's football games. Or putting extra hours at work, not paid for those. At barnes and noble preparing for when I start school. Putting in riduculous hours at the gym. Working out some more. Pulling out my hair since I am trying to hold on sex until the new year.Oh yeah , putting extra hours at work.

 

Oh yeah did I mention. I just moved away from my home town. So I also have no friends here. I spend weekends waiting for weekdays lol.

 

But I get to go to the movies tonight. To a movie I don't want to see but its a movie none the less. lol

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Go and make new friends then.

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Go and make new friends then.

 

Omg!!!!!!!! Would u stop it! I'm frustrated and I need real ideas dude. I don't have a lot of friends that are single. Don't make me crazy. Now I feel like smoking something.

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Here are some ideas I was given but I need more.

 

Movies

Dance class

Exercise

Record music

Wine bar

Wine tasting

Dinner

Walking

Shopping

Sports game

Meetup.com

Breakfast with a friend

 

What else...there is got to be some fun out there

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Omg!!!!!!!! Would u stop it! I'm frustrated and I need real ideas dude. I don't have a lot of friends that are single. Don't make me crazy. Now I feel like smoking something.

 

I was being completely serious. If you're bored with yourself, at least find other to entertain you. Not tht LS isn't exciting, but traffic dies down around the weekends.

 

If I were to make a list it would boil down to-

 

partying or watching a movie. A movie will fill up about 2 hours of your time, but partying will help you until 4 in the morning ( depending on your time zone). But you're not likely to party on your own... ( lone girl/guy at the club?)

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Art galleries

Book Store -> Coffee shop + reading

Concerts

Video Games

Hulu.com

Buy a cat, pet your new cat

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Omg!!!!!!!! Would u stop it! I'm frustrated and I need real ideas dude. I don't have a lot of friends that are single. Don't make me crazy. Now I feel like smoking something.

Join a salsa class. Its really the best and most fun place to meet people.

 

Putting in riduculous hours at the gym. Working out some more. Pulling out my hair since I am trying to hold on sex until the new year.

The more you work out, the hornier you get.

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I was being completely serious. If you're bored with yourself, at least find other to entertain you. Not tht LS isn't exciting, but traffic dies down around the weekends.

 

If I were to make a list it would boil down to-

 

partying or watching a movie. A movie will fill up about 2 hours of your time, but partying will help you until 4 in the morning ( depending on your time zone). But you're not likely to party on your own... ( lone girl/guy at the club?)

 

Sorry for going off the edge a little bit...lol..I'm really just ready to do something instead of spend the weekends in the house. By Friday I'm ready to interact in some kind of way. Glad u weren't offended. My kinda going crazy

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You know what I would suggest

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1. Get a long bike ride in on Saturday.

2. Get your long run in on Sunday.

 

Weekend workouts are VERY important :)

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You know what I would suggest

 

Baby I'm not skydivin

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Baby I'm not skydivin

 

 

You're missing out on life then. It's the most fun you will ever have.

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obviously you need new stimulation since you are so bored. Find a passion, and pursue it.

 

Ju jitsu? Leaves you so tired you just want to come home and veg.

 

Skiing? Snowboarding? (if available) provides hours of fun.

 

Those are two things I do to pass the time, being single on weekends. Life isint all about having a date every weekend, but you know that.

 

Cooking? Cook for yourself, invite a friend, cook for them. If you dont know how, great! learn how. Takes time and mistakes.

 

Find something you have always wanted to do, or started but didnt really get into in the past, and dedicate time to it to become a master.

 

Pool? go to a pool hall or quiet pub, strap on the headphones and practice. Play against yourself, set up shots and practice. Or buy a table and practice at home.

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hanging out with friends

music concerts

rock climbing

reading

watching tv

movies

cooking

getting tipsy

cleaning the apartment

online dating

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Sorry for going off the edge a little bit...lol..I'm really just ready to do something instead of spend the weekends in the house. By Friday I'm ready to interact in some kind of way. Glad u weren't offended. My kinda going crazy

I'm not offended. I feel the same way. I like to strip off inhibitions for weekend fun but sometimes i find myself without plans which can be extremely frustrating. Of course I may get irritable but there are other ways to channel that energy.

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Become my friend on the starcraft battlenet

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Do a dance class or an art class or learn to play the guitar. Now when you are single is the only time that you can throw yourself into your hobby 100% and not have to worry that your partner is feeling ignored.

Any friend's you make from this, you are guaranteed that you will have alot in common, not just proximity like college friends.

Now is the time to pack in as much as you can!

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Please help me! I'm so bored on fri and sat if I don't have a date and besides I don't always want to have a date. I really want to enjoy my life while I'm single in the meantime but I don't know what to do. I'm so bored sometimes. I'm turning into a LS junkie cause I don't have a lot going on. So what are things to do on the weekend when u are not in a rel. I know I'm not alone on this...PLEASE HELP1111

 

 

I am single right now, and living in a new city where I don't even have any real friends yet. I work long hours, and my weekends are my time to myself. I love that. The last few months on my weekends I have seen a tutor to brush up on my skills in another language germane to my position, I have gone on walking tours of my new city, I have gone to several different museums, I have gone to a wine bar with some colleagues, I have joined a new gym. I plan to start taking classes in a traditional dance form. I've also watched a lot of movies and read a few novels. I'm not bored.

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