BrokenArrow1987 Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I get attention from some very attractive women at college but most of the time these grils are either engaged or have a boyfriend. I'm friendly but I try not to hit on, or flirt too much since I know if I was their boyfriend I would kick the **** out of me if I did. Why can't I be surrounded by single women instead of girls with a 6.5 ft tall athletes for a boyfriend that if they felt anything like I do about reletionships would hate how friendly I was with thier girlfriend. Are women jsut more attracted to men whlie their in a relationship? or do they find it more attractive that I'm not trying to persue them? I don't like it one bit.
Ruby Slippers Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 They're probably not getting enough attention and affection from their meathead boyfriends and are collecting admirers to fill the void.
JohnnyBlaze Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 Some of them do it for the attention, some like the "get what you can't have" thing, some like making their boyfriends jealous, some like making their girl friends jealous, and some do it just because it's all the fun without any of the consequences. For what it's worth, we had a girl start with the company last spring. On day one, me and a friend both agreed that she was absolutely in the first category - she liked attention. We knew she'd find some guy at work and wrap him around her little finger and were betting on who it would be. We were right on her approach, but we both lost on who it was. The one thing we didn't count on is that, despite us seeing it coming a mile away, it would be one of us. Specifically, me.
Nemicron Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 yea I agree the probably aren't getting what they want and are looking over the fence per say.. But you'd think if they were SO unhappy they wouldn't stick with the guy
skydiveaddict Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I get attention from some very attractive women at college but most of the time these grils are either engaged or have a boyfriend. I'm friendly but I try not to hit on, or flirt too much since I know if I was their boyfriend I would kick the **** out of me if I did. Why can't I be surrounded by single women instead of girls with a 6.5 ft tall athletes for a boyfriend that if they felt anything like I do about reletionships would hate how friendly I was with thier girlfriend. Are women jsut more attracted to men whlie their in a relationship? or do they find it more attractive that I'm not trying to persue them? I don't like it one bit. It's just a game they all play. I wouldn't worry about it
Author BrokenArrow1987 Posted November 6, 2010 Author Posted November 6, 2010 (edited) I guess that makes sense, are there any females here that are willing to share their perspective. But I don't think these girl are nessasarily unhappy with their current boyfriends, it's not like they cry to me about them. Hell one of them whos super cute has an engagement ring but never mentioned her feiance once in front of me. But like i said these women are attractive and I'm starting to get uncomfortable about the admiration (which by it's self is what men really want) I'm getting from them when they are already spoken for. Expecially considering some of my mormon ancestors got murdered for stealing other men's wives. No woman is worth that kind of trouble. I just try to keep things school baised like working on homework at school and not at their place and call them my "study buddy" instead of my friend which I dont think they like much. It's like I feel slight empathetic jelousy for their boyfriends or soemthing. is that weird? Ok maybe not that exactly I just feel a bit guilty about it. Edited November 6, 2010 by BrokenArrow1987
EasyHeart Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 You may just be misinterpreting friendliness for interest. Many married/engaged/dating women think they have an electric fence around them that says "OFF LIMITS", so they think that it makes them "safe" from anyone thinking that they are interested. Then they feel free to flirt and talk and pay attention to men they would never talk to if they were single.
Seamless74 Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 +1 ^^^ Its great to be in a relationship but many people especially women arent satisfied with just one person fawning over them they like attention and the more they get the better regardless of who it is.. Seems to be a recurring them around here that everytime a girl is friendly or maybe even flirtatious every guy seems to think it means theyre interested.. which it most certainly does not..
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