poorguy Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 So we broke up 5 months ago after 3 years. She got a new guy right away and fell in love quickly..So shortly after that I went NC 100%. So anyways within the last month or so she's been texting here and there (which is sort of what I expected to have happen). Yesterday though was the craziest of all of them though. I guess she and him had signed a lease a few months back and just moved in together. Well as the months have gone by she's gotten to know him better and told me that they are finished and she is done done and he is moving out. She told me he's verbally abusive and has a terrible temper and she just can't forgive the things he's said and can't live like that and moving in with him has been a terrible mistake.----Then she started telling me how much she misses me and being with me at my house and how she drives by my house everday now (she has to because she a new job by my house) then she starts talking about the sex life we had and how amazing it was and I'm not even going to go on but if you can imagine------ Ok so here's the question this has been going on for a month now with her (except the sex talk) what is she really thinking about???? I know she rebounded-i did too so I can't be too mad about that...Is this her way of slowly trying to come back???
bernardverh Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 - She tells you that she misses you - She wants to be with you - The sex story I would say this is not a way of telling to slowly come back, this sounds like she wants to come back running as soon as possible! Watch out though that it's not just because she wants just _someone_. Don't let yourself get hurt and make sure you first are clear with yourself about what you want. This also depends on how and why your earlier relationship ended.
VeveCakes Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 She doesn't want to be alone. She will leave you again when she meets someone else. Don't be a fool.
durkadurka Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 She doesn't want to be alone. She will leave you again when she meets someone else. Don't be a fool. Bingo, some girls can't cope with being alone. That's why when I told my ex we needed to sort our own individual personal issues, she jumped to the next guy that showed interest.
wicar1 Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 So we broke up 5 months ago after 3 years. She got a new guy right away and fell in love quickly..So shortly after that I went NC 100%. So anyways within the last month or so she's been texting here and there (which is sort of what I expected to have happen). Yesterday though was the craziest of all of them though. I guess she and him had signed a lease a few months back and just moved in together. Well as the months have gone by she's gotten to know him better and told me that they are finished and she is done done and he is moving out. She told me he's verbally abusive and has a terrible temper and she just can't forgive the things he's said and can't live like that and moving in with him has been a terrible mistake.----Then she started telling me how much she misses me and being with me at my house and how she drives by my house everday now (she has to because she a new job by my house) then she starts talking about the sex life we had and how amazing it was and I'm not even going to go on but if you can imagine------ Ok so here's the question this has been going on for a month now with her (except the sex talk) what is she really thinking about???? I know she rebounded-i did too so I can't be too mad about that...Is this her way of slowly trying to come back??? she is trying to come back....but dont ever take her back...coz she's gonna run soon.....as soon as she finds someone else
Nemicron Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 Honestly, sounds like another type of game. And thats how alot of girls are. They only act like that when something isn't going there way. Gotta wonder if you were to get back with her if she's be playing some other game as well. I wouldn't trust it.
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