Insanitylater Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I have never in my life seen a girl and had that feeling of "wow I need to talk to her, someway, somehow, I dont care when or where I need to meet that girl" How common/uncommon is this? Like when you see this played out in movies, where the guy just HAS to meet the girl. I have heard it brought up in real life, but not much. I'm not saying I havent seen a woman hot enough to qualify, I'm saying I dont have that reaction when I do see one.
shayan Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I've never experienced love at first site and I've dated pretty attractive girls, I never felt like I had to talk to them either but I do all the times cause it's fun and they're hot. So to answer your question yes, but who's to say you won't meet this girl tommorow and you'll be like I have to talk to her!
Author Insanitylater Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 who's to say you won't meet this girl tommorow and you'll be like I have to talk to her! I already know how the world works. First off I dont judge a woman by looks on whether I'm going to talk to her. Second, if she was hot enough to fit that scenario, I wouldnt waste my time, because I already know that women like that dont date guys like me. And that has nothing to do with lack of confidence, or any of the bullsh*t any of you come up with as a response. Its pure fact. It's called reality.
Marshmallow Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I have never in my life seen a girl and had that feeling of "wow I need to talk to her, someway, somehow, I dont care when or where I need to meet that girl" How common/uncommon is this? Like when you see this played out in movies, where the guy just HAS to meet the girl. I have heard it brought up in real life, but not much. I'm not saying I havent seen a woman hot enough to qualify, I'm saying I dont have that reaction when I do see one. Don't worry about it Life isn't like the movies. The movies aren't real life, they're idealistic, they're created in someones imagination. It's very rare life plays out in that idealistic or fairy tale way. I'm not saying it won't happen but don't go thinking there's something wrong because it hasn't.
Jannah Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I think it happens to some people. But, I think to quantify it as a fact, the two people have to end up together.
mogul Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 Second, if she was hot enough to fit that scenario, I wouldnt waste my time, because I already know that women like that dont date guys like me. . Don't sell yourself short. That's a general stereotype. I've dated enough beautiful women to know that is not always the case. Back to your original question, I do know what you are talking about. There has been a few cases where I saw a girl and instantly thought that she was beautiful and "the one". Its hard to explain, obviously, I don't feel that way about every beautiful girl. Only once in a blue moon do I get that feeling. Usually they are just cute, not "hot", but something about their demeanor and how they handle themselves do I feel the need to get to know them.
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