teamtrek15 Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 For starters my g/f and I have been together for a month now. I currently don't have facebook and don't know much about it. She has it. Her relationship status was "single" over the past month. She uses facebook on her phone only which is true b/c she never goes on her computer and said she couldn't change her status on her phone with the iphone app? is that true? So I brought it up the other day like does your status still say single? She said yeah but was like im going to change it now. She changed it and minutes later ex bf calls her up from a private #. Asking her if she is seeing somebody.she tells him yeah and not to bother her anymore. I asked her after that if they are on each others friends lists on facebook and at first she said no, but then right away she said i can't lie to you yes we are and he mustve got the notification over his phone that i changed my status. Should I be worried? i did meet her mom and all her family, friends, coworkers so it's not like im a secret.
lululucy Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I totally disagree. A month isn't that long and I know people who have been in (commited) relationships for over six months before they were comfortable telling facebook about it. Not because they didn't love or respect their partner but because commitment made them a little uncomfortable or they didn't want to jump the gun. And of course she has her ex on facebook. She only lied initially to avoid a confrontation. Try to put this behind you -- she did what you asked and made it public, she obviously cares about you.
Angel1111 Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 I agree that I don't think it's a big deal. I've known people in serious relationships who don't change their status for awhile. It's just strange to do that right away because you don't know where the relationship is going. As far as her ex being on her facebook, I wouldn't make an issue of it. He's an ex for a reason. You may want to get a facebook account in a couple of months or so just so you can chat with her at times on there because she apparently enjoys it.
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