newatthis1 Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 This guy is trying to play with my head! He wants to take the kids to his mother's for xmas (5 hours away), I told him that it was too soon (only 2 months since he left) and they are too young (3 years and 10 months) to be without me. He thinks that I am doing it to mess with him, he keeps threating me and yelling at me, then he texts that he is sorry for being mean and he is sorry for ruining our family! I don't really answer to any of this. He told me he wanted to talk and pick up some stuff from the house, I told him to come over after the kids were in bed, he did a no show/no call. So I called him to check if he was coming he said that he wasn't going to come over and that if the kids don't go with him for xmas, he was going to stop paying me and started threaten me again. He said that I always put him down that is why he didn't do anything the whole time he was with me, all I've done was to be supportive and give him 100% of myself. Everytime this jerk off contacts me, I am back to were I started and I feel really bad/sad/anxious. What is his problem?
2.50 a gallon Posted November 7, 2010 Posted November 7, 2010 Don't give in to the mommys boy. The kids stay with you over the holidays. If he wants to see them, he can come by your place. Have you noticed everything is your fault? Blame shifting, he won't take responsibility for his actions. As for paying you, get yourself an attorney, and get the courts to order child support. I repeat you will be doing him a favor and forcing him to grow up and face the music. Also, start documenting every interaction you have with him
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