Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Hey Everyone, Not so much a dating problem, and needing to make a decision. Basically it's friday evening here, and I have some things to do tomorrow, and then a big party to attend Saturday night (where I know I won't meet any dating prospects for myself, as it's mainly single women and I invited a couple of male friends for them). So as anyone who has read my last threads knows. I went out wednesday night, met a guy (who was probably just trying to set up an ONS, too bad for him I went home), and then I messages him around 3pm today and have heard nothing. So now, I could go to bed early, get a good nights sleep and be at my best for tomorrow, or I could take myself back out to the club, dance out my energy, and perhaps meet another cute guy to help me forget wednesday nights guy. This has the added advantage of keeping this new meeting (and possibly hitting on) momentum going. What do you think I should do?
utterer of lies Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 What do you think I should do? Call ONS guy and have sex to release some feel good neurotransmitters into your brain.
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Call ONS guy and have sex to release some feel good neurotransmitters into your brain. Ok Question, I didn't have sex with him and he has already ignored my text message. Why on earth would he even pick up if I called? (Your suggestion is so far out of my comfort zone, i am freaking out a little. I AM giving it serious consideration. Propositioning a virtually complete stranger for sex by telephone is kind of out of my league.)
utterer of lies Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Ok Question, I didn't have sex with him and he has already ignored my text message. Why on earth would he even pick up if I called? (Your suggestion is so far out of my comfort zone, i am freaking out a little. I AM giving it serious consideration. Propositioning a virtually complete stranger for sex by telephone is kind of out of my league.) There are no guarantees, obviously. But he seemed interested enough that he contacted you after midnight. Few men turn down sex with a girl they think is nice enough to call at night (unless they are in a serious relationship). But only do it you feel good about it and feel like you want it to happen. Otherwise the whole thing is pointless anyway.
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Thanks UOL and OG. I will see how I feel later on tonight. For now I feel much calmer having voiced my desires and pondered your responses. Both of your suggestions actually feel more desireable then going out to a club tonight. I just worked out it's almost 5months to the day since I had sex, no wonder I am starting to go a little crazy.
counterman Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Haha, just sleep on it. That guy has your text messages and hasn't responded, so I wouldn't bother. Depending on whether the night is still young, you might want to go clubbing if you're up for it. But if it's late, just pass on it. Plenty of other chances to melt away any frustrations
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Update: I ended up doing the responsible thing and just going to bed. It's been a big week.
Star Gazer Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Why did you even bother texting Wenesday guy after he demonstrated he's only looking for a ONS, and presumably you're not (otherwise you wouldn't have gone home)??
TheMENemy Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Stay home and catch up on your quantum physics project.
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Why did you even bother texting Wenesday guy after he demonstrated he's only looking for a ONS, and presumably you're not (otherwise you wouldn't have gone home)?? I did catergorically know for sure that all he was interested in was a ONS until I texted and didn't get a response. Someone on this forum said on 1 of the threads, that most guys are actually looking for a relationship over a series on ONS. If that is true, by not having a ONS and by contacting him (in case he had wanted to and had psyched himself out), I was giving the opportunity for him to connect to me. But he didn't respond to the text, so by virtue of that I have deduced that his motive on wednesday must have been for an ONS, nothing more. Everything about his body language on wednesday night told me he was into me. And I would much rather meet someone great and get to have sex with them more than once. Besides I wasn't about to hang around the night club for 1 1/2hrs alone, in case he decided to seek me out again.
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Stay home and catch up on your quantum physics project. Too funny:lmao: Yeah, I hope to have teleportation mastered in the new year.
Jynxx Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Everything about his body language on wednesday night told me he was into me. And I would much rather meet someone great and get to have sex with them more than once. Besides I wasn't about to hang around the night club for 1 1/2hrs alone, in case he decided to seek me out again. Believe me, if you went with the guy on wednesday and the sex was good and you guys clicked he would have changed his ONS plans to multiple night stand plans
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