Woggle Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Woggle, where is your sense of humour? Did you lose it, or simply misplace it? I recommend that you re-trace your steps to find it. I have a sense of humour but I know what these guys are going through. We are a generation of men raised to treat women with respect and not use them and treat them as equals and then we get out into the dating world and realize that it gets us nowhere fast. I found a woman that actually can appreciate being treated well but I have to echo the sentiments that the less you care about women the more they care about you. When I was at my misogynistic and cold hearted towards women they loved me the most. It's funny that at a time when women are screaming from the rooftops about how strong and independent they are the same to crave a man that is not afraid to put them in their place. It's like overgrown children trying to test a person's limits.
Jannah Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I have been told many times now that Im a really sweet/nice guy. I absolutely hate it. As most of the girls date the other type of guys. I need to grow a pair and start not giving a ****. My rant for the day. If this is your only strife in life, then consider yourself lucky. On that note, hey...you're an a*shole! Feel better?
Surrealist Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 On that note, hey...you're an a*shole! Feel better? Clearly no truism can be closer to the truth than this: Takes one to know one!
Jannah Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Clearly no truism can be closer to the truth than this: Takes one to know one! Touche. Btw, why are you wearing a yellow dress?
PJKino Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 The problem is that men confuse "nice" and "weak". Nice is attractive, but weak is not. I want a nice guy, but I also want him to be confident, dominant, decisive, and masculine. I don't want a man who lets me and other people walk all over him; he can be a nice person but still be a confident strong man. The cocky idiots are confident and strong, and a woman thinks she might be able to make him love her and be nice and sweet. But she knows that if she chooses a guy who is nice but weak, she has no chance of making him strong. In other words, there's a chance she can tame the bad boy, but there's no chance of installing a spine in a weakling, so she goes for the former option time and time again. "Dominant" what does that mean? AN alpha male dbag who shows his superiorty over other males? A far as decisive that means you want him making all the decisons in a relationship
Woggle Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 So, you were a player before you were married again? I'm confused. Yes I was a damn good one but I got sick of it and I married my wife because she was completely unimpressed with that side of me. She actually loved the sweetness I do have deep down and that is why I married her and not one of the many drama addicts who clung to me.
Surrealist Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Touche. Btw, why are you wearing a yellow dress? Because...... I'm a closet cross-dresser.
Jannah Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Yes I was a damn good one but I got sick of it and I married my wife because she was completely unimpressed with that side of me. She actually loved the sweetness I do have deep down and that is why I married her and not one of the many drama addicts who clung to me. Coming from someone who was abused by their ex and clung to her....It's a shame you did not recognize that you were doing the exact same thing to these women in your "player days". So please, stop promoting similar treatment in these types of threads.
Nemicron Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I do totally agree with that. I respected women and treated that with kindness and honor. And what did I get in return. Instead I got a cheating wench that couldnt do anything but lie all the time. And I even ended up having to deal with one of the guys she picked up off the streets and screwed. Then the dude tried to come back after we made up things and tried to rob us at gun point. And all the while she was singing the same tune as the rest of them. Yes I was a damn good one but I got sick of it and I married my wife because she was completely unimpressed with that side of me. She actually loved the sweetness I do have deep down and that is why I married her and not one of the many drama addicts who clung to me.
Sabali Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 If this is your only strife in life, then consider yourself lucky. On that note, hey...you're an a*shole! Feel better? Of course not. You have to give it up first.
Woggle Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Coming from someone who was abused by their ex and clung to her....It's a shame you did not recognize that you were doing the exact same thing to these women in your "player days". So please, stop promoting similar treatment in these types of threads. Not true. My marriage went downhill pretty fast and when I found out she cheated it was over from that point as far as I was concerned. I admit I put up with too much crap before she crossed that line but I knew my limits. I never chased after a woman that treated me like crap. All of my sex buddies in my players chased after me and I had the upper hand in those situations.
skydiveaddict Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I do totally agree with that. I respected women and treated that with kindness and honor. And what did I get in return. Instead I got a cheating wench that couldnt do anything but lie all the time. And I even ended up having to deal with one of the guys she picked up off the streets and screwed. Then the dude tried to come back after we made up things and tried to rob us at gun point. And all the while she was singing the same tune as the rest of them. Welcome to the real world
Sabali Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Touche. Btw, why are you wearing a yellow dress? Since we are on the subject of dressing, what are you wearing right now, Jannah?
Woggle Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 I do totally agree with that. I respected women and treated that with kindness and honor. And what did I get in return. Instead I got a cheating wench that couldnt do anything but lie all the time. And I even ended up having to deal with one of the guys she picked up off the streets and screwed. Then the dude tried to come back after we made up things and tried to rob us at gun point. And all the while she was singing the same tune as the rest of them. Chances are she is still attracted to him as well.
Jannah Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Ugh. Thank goodness men don't have to endure child birth. The earth would probably collapse.
skydiveaddict Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Chances are she is still attracted to him as well. agreed.........
Nemicron Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 HAHAHa yea no kidding Welcome to the real world
that girl Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 The whole "women don't like nice guys" thing is something guys say to make themselves feel better. The guys I know who had loads of girls interested in them have always been good guys. The good guys who didn't have dating options generally had some specific obstacle. Or they were jerks who thought they were nice.
Nemicron Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 No, because she got him thrown in jail. She was just using him. Look bottom line is I personally dont have any faith in any of that. We could all sit here and put blame and use excuses till we are blue in the face. But it still doesn't address the main topic. People are shallow and inconsiderate. How many people have gone out on a date because they felt bad for the other person. Or how many guys have said the right things just to get laid. Or girls playing games just because the guy doesn't have a nice car or whatever. ITs all stupid. Chances are she is still attracted to him as well.
Woggle Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Her type will throw a man under the bus in a heartbeat. My ex is facing serious jail time for robbing a dunkin donuts and having a bunch of coke in the trunk of her car and she is blaming it all on her boyfriend at the time who was with her. She is acting like she is the innocent little girl who got led astray by a big mean man.
Nemicron Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Ok... so let me ask you something. You've never turned down a guy that was nice? What if he was like this perfect looking guy that had all the features that get you going. Whatever they are and he really made you feel all butterfly-ish and everything. But he had this kinda dark side to him. As opposed to a guy thats average looking and is a nice guy. is caring and loving. And respectful. And would you know would be faithful. I'd be willing to bet that you'd probably not go for something like that because it not a challenge. The whole "women don't like nice guys" thing is something guys say to make themselves feel better. The guys I know who had loads of girls interested in them have always been good guys. The good guys who didn't have dating options generally had some specific obstacle. Or they were jerks who thought they were nice.
Nemicron Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Sorry you had to go through all that. Sounds like my ex. She blames everyone else for some guy tripping and magically falling in between her legs. And still doesn't have any remorse. I'd say after all that I have every right to be a jerk. Her type will throw a man under the bus in a heartbeat. My ex is facing serious jail time for robbing a dunkin donuts and having a bunch of coke in the trunk of her car and she is blaming it all on her boyfriend at the time who was with her. She is acting like she is the innocent little girl who got led astray by a big mean man.
skydiveaddict Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Ok... so let me ask you something. You've never turned down a guy that was nice? What if he was like this perfect looking guy that had all the features that get you going. Whatever they are and he really made you feel all butterfly-ish and everything. But he had this kinda dark side to him. As opposed to a guy thats average looking and is a nice guy. is caring and loving. And respectful. And would you know would be faithful. I'd be willing to bet that you'd probably not go for something like that because it not a challenge. A girl will go for option A every time. It's just the way women work.
Woggle Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Don't be sorry because I am stronger because of it but I hope the judge sees through her but since she is playing the poor little woman led astray act I can see her getting away with it again. She won't learn until she is found somewhere overdosed.
PJKino Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Ok... so let me ask you something. You've never turned down a guy that was nice? What if he was like this perfect looking guy that had all the features that get you going. Whatever they are and he really made you feel all butterfly-ish and everything. But he had this kinda dark side to him. As opposed to a guy thats average looking and is a nice guy. is caring and loving. And respectful. And would you know would be faithful. I'd be willing to bet that you'd probably not go for something like that because it not a challenge. That why i dont think most sane women want or seek out badboys but if the guy is good looking they will put up with allot of stuff
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