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going to the movies then hanging out at the mall with my girlfriend. she gives hints to want me to kiss her. what are proper steps and signals to know that a she wants to kiss? how do I kiss, step by step? I know it's natural but I have NO idea what I'm doing

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You got this advice yesterday. I can't improve on it.

 

Be the man. Respect the woman.

 

The first kiss; you'll know. Have one of those nice hugs or cuddles... gently reach over and, two fingers under her chin so you are eye to eye, lightly stroke a thumb over her cheek bone and take a slow relaxed kiss. No groping, just hold her face to yours while you kiss her... when you pull away run your fingers back along her jawline and off her chin...

 

Something like "Wow...seems like I've been waiting forever to do that" or "Even better than I imagined" is pretty great.

 

Don't wait too much longer, or she's gonna quit and put you in the friend zone.

 

-Dazed

 

Don't force the moment. Just wait until you make and hold a little eye contact.

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To kiss a girl properly, you have to first wait until she uncrosses

her legs.

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You got this advice yesterday. I can't improve on it.

 

 

 

Don't force the moment. Just wait until you make and hold a little eye contact.

 

 

whoa I missed that! that's awesome advice! thanks man! and to the reply above, that's perverted. I'm not looking for sex with this girl. I genuinely like her :)

 

so the putting my hand on her face lightly and kissing he isn't too over done?

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so the putting my hand on her face lightly and kissing he isn't too over done?

 

Sounds pretty good to me :) I think you got good advice there.

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A 1st kiss has to be magical!

the 1st time my bf kissed me we were on a nice long walk and he spun me round like we were dancing and then pulled me in closed...looked at me in the eyes and then slowly went in for a kiss

it was so magical that we have been going out for a year and i can still remember what he was wearing, the softness of his lips and the way he rested his forhead on mine after pulling away just staying close and looking into my eyes.....it was amazing :)

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Sounds pretty good to me :) I think you got good advice there.

 

thank you, any advice from a girl is credible to me :) Im sure everything will go just fine :)

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You'll do fine. Let us know how it goes!

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A 1st kiss has to be magical!

the 1st time my bf kissed me we were on a nice long walk and he spun me round like we were dancing and then pulled me in closed...looked at me in the eyes and then slowly went in for a kiss

it was so magical that we have been going out for a year and i can still remember what he was wearing, the softness of his lips and the way he rested his forhead on mine after pulling away just staying close and looking into my eyes.....it was amazing :)

 

 

 

wow that does sound magical! :) I hope mine goes something like that! congratulations on being with him for a year. I hope that's my position in a year from now :)

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You'll do fine. Let us know how it goes!

 

will do! hopefully it's as good as the above messages experience was :)

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I'm not looking for sex with this girl.

 

 

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Ouch, those turnip trucks are kinda bumpy.

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To kiss a girl properly, you have to first wait until she uncrosses

her legs.

 

Howled with laughter.

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OP are you writing all of this stuff down?

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OP are you writing all of this stuff down?

 

haha no mam?

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I suggest commiting to taking action and trying not to over-think it. Tell yourself I'm gonna kiss this girl TODAY--it's time and that's that (assuming she seems untroubled by anything else). You say she gives you cues so, take the next one. Perhaps you might want to make it easy for her to give you those cues too by getting her alone in a romantic situation. Take her hand, look into her eyes, move together and she'll probably access herself to you.

 

I could give you a contingency or two if she seems awkward and doesn't quite access herself to you which have worked for me but I'm gonna spare myself some AH coming on and telling me that what I suggest sounds lame. *coughs green coughs* Suffice it to say that if you're considerate and gentle you'll make it easy for her to let you know what's what so you know what's appropriate. I wouldn't put too much stock in all this "magial" stuff--that's all well and good. But getting physical with someone for the first time is always a start in a process of sensing what's the best next move. So, once you establish that she is good with reaching this level of expression, trust me, kisses aren't going to go down hill. You'll just look at the whole experience of reaching the next plateau of expressiveness as the memorable magic.

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I suggest commiting to taking action and trying not to over-think it. Tell yourself I'm gonna kiss this girl TODAY--it's time and that's that (assuming she seems untroubled by anything else). You say she gives you cues so, take the next one. Perhaps you might want to make it easy for her to give you those cues too by getting her alone in a romantic situation. Take her hand, look into her eyes, move together and she'll probably access herself to you.

 

I could give you a contingency or two if she seems awkward and doesn't quite access herself to you which have worked for me but I'm gonna spare myself some AH coming on and telling me that what I suggest sounds lame. *coughs green coughs* Suffice it to say that if you're considerate and gentle you'll make it easy for her to let you know what's what so you know what's appropriate. I wouldn't put too much stock in all this "magial" stuff--that's all well and good. But getting physical with someone for the first time is always a start in a process of sensing what's the best next move. So, once you establish that she is good with reaching this level of expression, trust me, kisses aren't going to go down hill. You'll just look at the whole experience of reaching the next plateau of expressiveness as the memorable magic.

 

 

thanks man, this was fantastic advice! ok so here's the plan, as of a few hours ago. we meet up at 5 (her sister will be there) it's hard to explain but she's cool and understands us better than anyone else I know. we eat at 5. movie at 6. shop and walk around chatting till 9. so I assume there will be points in time where her sister will give us some private time. whenever that is, and whenever it's quiet, I will go for the kiss. would it be a bad idea if it seemed like the best time was in movie?? should I intentionally take her somewhere quiet and secluded, or should I just not plan anything, and wait for the right time. I'd also say we will probably spend a little time outside the mall so we can walk in the night for a little while, so maybe then. we will see what happens.

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going to the movies then hanging out at the mall with my girlfriend. she gives hints to want me to kiss her. what are proper steps and signals to know that a she wants to kiss? how do I kiss, step by step? I know it's natural but I have NO idea what I'm doing

 

If you haven't kissed yet, she's NOT your girlfriend.

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If you haven't kissed yet, she's NOT your girlfriend.

 

how so?? I don't see why I'd have to kiss her to make her my girlfriend...

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OP, seriously now:

 

 

You must KISS HER ON THE LIPS immediately the very first moment you lay eyes on her again.

 

"Just DO IT."

 

It doesn't have to be big wet and sloppy.

 

As SOON as you see her again, whenever, wherever that is, just say "It's so great to see you again," then dive in for that kiss.

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hope you have noticed what all these tips have in common?

 

if not:

MAKE SURE YOU LOOK AT HER IN THE EYES!

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This thread makes me want to be kissed :laugh::)

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This thread makes me want to be kissed :laugh::)

 

You rang?:love:

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You rang?:love:

 

:love::love::love:

 

:laugh:

Posshgal Member

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This thread makes me want to be kissed :laugh::)

 

Me too :( feeling so lonely

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thanks for all the advice guys, and girls! I couldn't have asked for anything better :) I hope it goes half as good as you all make it sound. I think tomorrow will be a VERY good day :D

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