guy.lepage Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 I've been casually seeing this girl for a bit. She is very attractive and we get along great. I wouldn't say we're dating though as we did not get physical yet but had very good evenings together. Here's the thing, she has a handicapped child who needs lots of attention and it's a delicate subject. I really like her but I'm not sure I want things to go too far at this point. We were talking and I told her on the side that I wouldn't be a very good life partner, that it's not really part of my personality, that I'm not feeling it inside of me, the whole nine yards. She immediately said she thinks I have the qualities to make a very good hubby. Is this girl testing me or did she just want to compliment me? As you can see, my tactic totally backfired!
TheMENemy Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Women are always testing men. An attractive woman with a handicapped child, if she has any sense, will not date ANY man unless she thinks he has "potential" as a long term partner. That doesn't mean you can't date her and have fun for a while, though.
Author guy.lepage Posted November 4, 2010 Author Posted November 4, 2010 Women are always testing men. An attractive woman with a handicapped child, if she has any sense, will not date ANY man unless she thinks he has "potential" as a long term partner. That doesn't mean you can't date her and have fun for a while, though. Thanks. I do feel some extra pressure though!
Posshgal Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 hi. im new on here so hope im some help. im a childcare pratitioner and have studyed a lot about children with handicaps. it is very important for any child regardless of there needs to have stubblity or a rotain. i believe that this women may have been looking for a reaction as she may be scared of hurting the child when getting into relationship and then the extra person (you) just leaving. if you really want to be with her i think you need to tell her this but also let her know that you dont feel confortable with the idea as a hubby right now. then the cards are on her table and she can decide what is best for her child. hope thats some help x
Sabali Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 (edited) My interpretation of this: " She immediately said she thinks I have the qualities to make a very good hubby" = She immediately said I will make a good friend to her and a very good hubby for someone else. Edited November 4, 2010 by Sabali
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