beachbum84 Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 So have you ever been so head over heels and desperate for someone else and pinned not so secretly for them for a long time. And then later on you finally get your opportunity and you turn it down? I did that when I was much younger, and at times since then I wonder why I turned it down, and what might have been. Not saying that I long for that person anymore, but once in a while out of the blue I'll have dreams that play out the scenario like I had dreamt it many times before, and I wake up feeling like I should have just gone for it, so I wouldn't have wondered.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 It happened to me when I was younger. I don't regret it. The "what ifs" are usually a sign that you aren't satisfied with whatever your current situation is and that means it needs some fixing. Most of your life is what you do, so if you think about it, that potential relationship probably wouldn't have gone much different then any of the other ones you have had.
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