bleeg Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 I don't know if a thread regarding trust has been made but I find this is an important theme revolving around second chances. My ex doesn't trust me. I find I can't do anything to regain her trust. She's angry right now because she thinks I fooled around with a friend of hers while we were broken up, when in fact I would ask her friend for help on getting my ex back. Any advise on how to regain trust? Is it with time? Do you show the person you still care even when they say hurtful things to you? How do you regain trust in somebody that you love that you would never hurt intentionally?
dreamingoftigers Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 1. You commit to the relationship. 2. You act in a manner that shows you respect yourself, automatically you will show respect for your SO. 3. Disclose anything that you have done wrong and give them the choice to deal with it. 4. Make amends. If they distrust you for something you haven't done, try to assess why they think this has happened, have your behaviour match your words. 5. Behave consistently and eventually they should turn around, check in every now and then and see where they are at. 6. Do things that promote the emotional attachment and intimacy between the two of you.
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