Posshgal Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 (edited) Hi, Im new on here but really need some help! I have known my boyfriend for just over 2years and we got together just over a year ago. We had a great relationship seeing each other most days and it was going great. But then he decided to move away and go to uni. I didnt mind and we spoke on the phone most days and often more then once a day. However his birthday has just passed and i forgot to order him something he kicked up a big fuss so i told him i had ordered it but it was delayed sending it out, he said me it they really said that or if I was just saying that and ordering it now I told him that they really did. About an hour later he asked me again and i felt guilty so I told him the turth, he has not spoken to me in 4days and said he is still angry with me how can I get him to turst me again I dont think I would want to live in a world without him nd hate him being angry with me PLEASE HELP! x Edited November 4, 2010 by Posshgal
Author Posshgal Posted November 4, 2010 Author Posted November 4, 2010 thanks for relpying. i was meant to get him a wifi card for his computer as he has just moved to a new place and was using internet from him phone. We have fullen out before but never like this i got the confidence to text him eairer and ask him if he still wanted to be with me and he just said he has been to busy studying recentaly to think about anything else. Im not sure if he still loves me or not last time he said it was 2weeks ago and last time i said it was this afternoon anwser to your post: im a bit stupid (as i get told all the time by him) but i think this is what you want to know: i believe for a long disctance relationship to work you need contanct. we always used to phone each other or be on skype and send videos to each other. i also think it is nice if you can recond yourself speaking and leave a meassage for them and them send it to them that way they can listen to you any time they want because that is want i miss the most just listening to him talk x
Bunny202 Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 thanks for relpying. i was meant to get him a wifi card for his computer as he has just moved to a new place and was using internet from him phone. We have fullen out before but never like this i got the confidence to text him eairer and ask him if he still wanted to be with me and he just said he has been to busy studying recentaly to think about anything else. Im not sure if he still loves me or not last time he said it was 2weeks ago and last time i said it was this afternoon anwser to your post: im a bit stupid (as i get told all the time by him) but i think this is what you want to know: i believe for a long disctance relationship to work you need contanct. we always used to phone each other or be on skype and send videos to each other. i also think it is nice if you can recond yourself speaking and leave a meassage for them and them send it to them that way they can listen to you any time they want because that is want i miss the most just listening to him talk x Why are you letting him tell you you're stupid all the time? That doesn't sound healthy to me. Raises a definite red flag. As for the gift issue, I could understand him being upset and hurt, but four days of not talking is pretty extreme. I agree with whoever said that you should find out if there is some other underlying problem going on here that he's not telling you about. You definitely need to have a talk with him.
Author Posshgal Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 thanks for replying. I text him yesturday asking if he still wanted to be with me or not and he said he has been to busy with uni work to thing about things latley. And now things seem to be better he is texting me more and even phoned me last night. Think things will be ok now
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