europinay Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 My boyfriend and I started "seeing" each other since May and became "exclusive" in August. We are also in a long distance relationship - about 3 hours drive away. The other day he told me that he found out through mutual friends that she is 4 months pregnant and it may be his (or it more than likely is). He told me that he had a one night stand with her in June which makes the time gap of him likely being the father. He said that he doesn't have contact with her and that she just so happened to be at the same party and he got drunk and one thing lead to another. I just don't know what to believe. I mean, I can't really call him a cheater because we were not "officiallY" together. But yet we were intimate during that time, and he would always drive to see me more than I would to him. But i still hate the fact that he slept with her while he was intimate with me. What I don't understand is why she never bothered trying to contact him. He still hasn't confronted her and why would she not contact him if her IS the father? Why 4 months down the line are her cousins looking for him? I thought maybe because she doesn't know who the father is, or has confronted the father but refused to take responsibility therefore told her cousins that my bf is the father. I dunno, it doesn't make sense. I'm confident that he told me as soon as he found out too. That evening. So.. I don't know what to do. I feel so much for his guy but not sure if I can go through that knowing that it was something that I would have wanted to experience WITH him rather than taking the back seat and watching. Some people say I should support him but it seems weird to do that. it's harder since we live a distance apart too. I'm so distraught. I text him telling him to call me when he is free but he still hasn't responded and I'm thinking that he is taking time out to think what exactly he is going to to. Please help, any advice is welcome!
LoveTruthChaos Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Let this relationship go. He's not worth your time, the 'what if's', or the mistrust that he has already brought to you.
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