Titania22 Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Hi Guys, Well I went out last night, with the intention of approaching guys, giving them compliments and walking away. But as with most things situations seldom follow a plan. So the approaching guys thing will have to wait, because I actually met someone I really liked. He was there with his friends, one of whom was celebrating his 22nd birthday. I actually met the birthday boy first, and all his friends seemed nice and fun, but what was interesting was it seemed like as a group they decided that which guy would be the 'one'. So I don't know what that was about, maybe the rest had girlfriends, who knows. But the point is I had lots of fun, and gave him my number. And then they went to a different area of the club and said goodbye. So after a bit, I just went home. I really felt like I had had my fill of 'man' and didn't want to 'look around' and meet anyone else. About 1 1/2 hrs after I left he texts me to find out where I am, so maybe he was just doing groundwork earlier for an ONS. But if he was genuine, I would be happy to see him again. I know nothing about him, so there is a curiosity factor. Of course I have his number, because of the texting, so there is no reason why I couldn't contact him in a bit, if I don't hear from him. What do you guys think?
counterman Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Well, most important thing is you had fun I agree that the situation earlier was probably trying to set up a ONS. If you're really curious about him, I'll say go for it. Contact him, do whatever. And actually see what he is like before putting your eggs in the one basket. Has he asked to meet you again or has it just been a few texts? Funny how life works. The best plans often go astray. BUT, you must at some point try the approaching guys thing and tell us how it goes! I was actually looking forward to an update on that Nevertheless, all good.
Author Titania22 Posted November 4, 2010 Author Posted November 4, 2010 Well, most important thing is you had fun I agree that the situation earlier was probably trying to set up a ONS. If you're really curious about him, I'll say go for it. Contact him, do whatever. And actually see what he is like before putting your eggs in the one basket. Has he asked to meet you again or has it just been a few texts? It was just a few texts at 1:30am. Nothing since then. I hate waiting. Phone number burn a whole in my phone. I can't have a guys phone number and not use it. It's like having access to the nuclear codes, it's just so tempting to use them, even though it's probably unwise. I get giddy with the power. (You texted me without blocking your number first, hahaha, you have fallen into my evil web.) Funny how life works. The best plans often go astray. BUT, you must at some point try the approaching guys thing and tell us how it goes! I was actually looking forward to an update on that Nevertheless, all good. I totally intend to. I think it will be my standard plan for the summer, unless I meet someone special. (1 man is more than enough for me. No need to be greedy.) I think it will be more nerve racking approaching guys on the beach (the beach being one of the places suggested to me on another thread). As you can probably tell from this post, I am still totally loving my life. It has honestly never been this much fun. I can make fun of myself all day.
counterman Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 It was just a few texts at 1:30am. Nothing since then. I hate waiting. Phone number burn a whole in my phone. I can't have a guys phone number and not use it. It's like having access to the nuclear codes, it's just so tempting to use them, even though it's probably unwise. I get giddy with the power. (You texted me without blocking your number first, hahaha, you have fallen into my evil web.) You're so funny and cute! Just use it and yeah, see what happens. I totally intend to. I think it will be my standard plan for the summer, unless I meet someone special. (1 man is more than enough for me. No need to be greedy.) I think it will be more nerve racking approaching guys on the beach (the beach being one of the places suggested to me on another thread). As you can probably tell from this post, I am still totally loving my life. It has honestly never been this much fun. I can make fun of myself all day. Wow, the beach. That should be quite an experience. It's all bodies and whatnot there. But I am sure if a guy is approached by a chick sporting a bikini he would be very happy indeed I can tell and I reckon it's awesome that you're enjoying yourself so much. Usually, people join these forums due to bad experiences. I like how you like to put yourself in uncomfortable situations also, sort of like a challenge. Makes life interesting, doesn't it? Not always fun staying inside our box of comfort.
Author Titania22 Posted November 4, 2010 Author Posted November 4, 2010 You're so funny and cute! Just use it and yeah, see what happens. Ok, next question. I met him on wednesday night. It's now friday 8am here. What day/time do I call? Wow, the beach. That should be quite an experience. It's all bodies and whatnot there. But I am sure if a guy is approached by a chick sporting a bikini he would be very happy indeed I know, a real challenge to be confident, whilst showing all that skin. I can tell and I reckon it's awesome that you're enjoying yourself so much. Usually, people join these forums due to bad experiences. I like how you like to put yourself in uncomfortable situations also, sort of like a challenge. Makes life interesting, doesn't it? Not always fun staying inside our box of comfort. Everyone's had bad experiences, I have always looked at them as opportunities to learn lessons and become a better person. I can't be responsible for anyone else, but I can choose to be the change I want to see in the world. Absolutely, I think if I managed to approach any guy whilst wearing a bikini, that would be the ultimate in self-mastery, and I won't probably feel like a god afterwards, no matter the outcome.
musemaj11 Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Its not the gender that determines the success. It is the skill of the person. The hardest part of approaching someone is keeping your cool and not fidgeting like a fool.
Cuchara2 Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Text him at around 3pm asking how he is etc. then after a couple of texts, or if he calls you ask him what he's doing this weekend, see if he catches on that you're interested I think it's great that you're approaching people and I wish you the best of luck with it!
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Ask him out for a drink. Text him at around 3pm asking how he is etc. then after a couple of texts, or if he calls you ask him what he's doing this weekend, see if he catches on that you're interested I think it's great that you're approaching people and I wish you the best of luck with it! Thanks Guys. See, these are things I never would have considered. Thankyou so much.
Author Titania22 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Just an update, to let whoever is interested know, that I sent him a text at 3pm (Hey, how's your day?) and it's 4:30pm now, so far nothing. I didn't leave my name on it, as my name was in his phone wednesday night, so if he already deleted it, he isn't interested anyway.
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