sfl Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 And I really do mean just a little, I am madly in love with this girl, but that's the problem - I feel like I'm investing way too much into this relationship at such an early stage, and she's doing the same, and not in a particularly healthy way... So I'm wondering, how do I just step back a bit? I feel like I really have to, but don't know where to start. Just things like stop thinking of giving everything up to be with her more often, just stop thinking about her all the time, stop thinking I'll only be happy in the future if we're together etc etc.
dreamingoftigers Posted November 5, 2010 Posted November 5, 2010 Sounds like you are bordering on obsession. Try to keep an interest in the things you used to do and the people you used to hang out with before you met her, don't just cocoon yourself.
Author sfl Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 Cheers, I wouldn't say it was an obsession, just everything kinda sucks if I'm not with her. Doing the things that made me happy before is all well and good, but I don't know, I've got a lot of very good things going on in my life at the moment, lots of very good things, I just don't really care about any of it. So it's hard to get back into a mentality where I'm not just counting down the time until I see her again, argh...
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