nice-easy-day Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 So I have a friend who invited me to a party next week. She's a friend only and will be the only person I know there. I'm thinking of asking this girl I've been seeing recently to come with me. What I'm worried about is how will the girl I'm seeing take it when she finds out it was another girl that invited me to the party? She doesn't know about this other girl but the thing is she is very, very beautiful. I'm interested in both girls. So what do I do? I think I know the answer but I'd like to hear what you have to say.
ascendotum Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 They can compete for your affections. Flirt with one while you steal glances with the other across the room, then mingle over to her and do the same with her. I've seen it happen quite a few times, but it helps for you to be a pretty good looking dude to play this. I don't think it is such a bad thing at all that this other girl knows that 'very very beautiful' girl has invited you to a party. For me I'd be inclined to leave the girl you're seeing (who I gather has not got GF status just yet) alone at home that night and focus on the girl who invited you to the party and do your best to get know her more where alcohol is being served. A single 'very very beautiful' girl is going to get a lottttt of attention from most of the other guys at that party, and you wont be there to occupy her attention. That Window of opportunity wont stay open for long. If all 'very very beautiful' girl has going for her is her looks then, bring along the other girl you like, and flirt with the hostess a bit to make the other girl a little jealous.
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 They can compete for your affections. Flirt with one while you steal glances with the other across the room, then mingle over to her and do the same with her. I've seen it happen quite a few times, but it helps for you to be a pretty good looking dude to play this. I don't think it is such a bad thing at all that this other girl knows that 'very very beautiful' girl has invited you to a party. For me I'd be inclined to leave the girl you're seeing (who I gather has not got GF status just yet) alone at home that night and focus on the girl who invited you to the party and do your best to get know her more where alcohol is being served. A single 'very very beautiful' girl is going to get a lottttt of attention from most of the other guys at that party, and you wont be there to occupy her attention. That Window of opportunity wont stay open for long. If all 'very very beautiful' girl has going for her is her looks then, bring along the other girl you like, and flirt with the hostess a bit to make the other girl a little jealous. If some guy invited me to a party where the only person I knew was him, to only then starting flirting with other girls... I would be more pissed off rather than jealous. That is just rude imo. OP: I suggest that you don't go to the party by yourself unless you are extremely confident. You don't know anybody else apart from one girl and if you're not a social butterfly and a great conversationalist you might feel awkward or left out. Don't expect the 'very beautiful girl' to spend every minute with you. She won't. And if you follow her around like a puppy she'll probably get annoyed. With that said, do not bring the other girl if you intend on flirting with both of them at the party. Just don't do it. If you are ready to give your full attention to your date, then bring her along. I'm sure she won't have any issues regarding the 'very beautiful girl' unless you give her reason to (fawning over her is probably not the best idea;) ).
Author nice-easy-day Posted November 3, 2010 Author Posted November 3, 2010 If you are ready to give your full attention to your date, then bring her along. I'm sure she won't have any issues regarding the 'very beautiful girl' unless you give her reason to The girl I want to bring as a date is the one who I'm interested in the most. I was hoping it might spark a little jealousy in her to my benefit if she knows a beautiful girl invited me to the party. Yes, I plan to give her full attention. I just don't want her to get pissed and have it backfire on me. The other girl I don't care about because I don't know her much at all. I just think she's cute.
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 The girl I want to bring as a date is the one who I'm interested in the most. I was hoping it might spark a little jealousy in her to my benefit if she knows a beautiful girl invited me to the party. Yes, I plan to give her full attention. I just don't want her to get pissed and have it backfire on me. The other girl I don't care about because I don't know her much at all. I just think she's cute. Okay. She has absolutley no reason to get pissed off at you if you're not obviously flirting with the girl who invited you.
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