jessy1 Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 Hey guys Just wanna run a brief convo past you that I had with a guy from my uni (who I find irrestible and am pretty much in love with!!!) We are not offically a couple or anything but we have been friends for ages. He has a bit of a rep for sleeping round which is why I have never touched him even tho I find myself pretty much in love with him!! Anyway he has been txtn me alot lately usually saying really sweet things. He tells me he has changed his ways and wants to be with me. He sends me the most lovely txts and I have really fallen for him but im very afraid of getting hurt or used. Anyway tonight he txt me saying he was out at Mc Donalds. I replied telling him to bring me a cheeseburger. He says 'Ok but only if you give me a massage' This seemed ok to me so I said 'Deal' He then replies with "And suck my dick :)" I didnt reply directly to the last one but txt him a little bit later telling him to bring me my cheeseburger. His reply was 'O I didn't get you one, sorry hun' I replied jokingly "No massage for you then" To which I got 'Fine whatever, have a good night' I get the strong feeling I am being used ...... Any thoughts on this. And where do I go from here? Thanks guys
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 (edited) wow. This guy sounds like an absolute PRICK. Seems like he just wanted to push it and see as far as he could take it and when you didn't reply to the 'suck my dick' text, he got pissed off. Babe, if you are not being used already, he INTENDS on using you. I really don't believe that any guy with the intention of settling down with a girl would speak to her in this fashion. It shows total lack of respect. Please do not put up with this BS. edit: seriously, just reading that conversation makes me mad! what a douche. Edited November 3, 2010 by loverofloveandstuff
callingyouuu Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 I agree. I'm ashamed to classify him within the same gender as me. That's just awful. Jessy, guys don't change overnight. Heck, in general, guys don't change.
mogul Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 Wow, thats pretty vulgar. Just cut him out of your life altogether.
ascendotum Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 he sleeps around a lot.(eh everybody's doing it) now he 'says' he's changed his ways all of sudden (because you are his dream girl + soul mate) Offers to get you some food while out but you need to you suck him off in return (look he's already spent time + money on those sweet txts its time for you to do your bit) You don't respond (the smiley face obviously failed to convey a cheeky attitude, so now its ) He gets stroppy and decides to not get you the food after all. (this is not going to plan) He finishes up with that classic flippant (you are not worth my effort to think of something worthwhile to say) phrase....whateva! Will hot looks beat out a scumbag attitude....??? (I hope not) Where do you do go from here..I was going to suggest stringing him along, but it looks like his threshold for courting you didn't even go as high as fetching you a mcdonalds burger.
Alexanda Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 What an ********* that guy is!!! A guy who really cares about you and likes you will not say things like that!! You need to fall out of love with him. Yeah he would use you. Don't talk to him anymore.
Sarah1977 Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 He's not into you. Even players clean up their act when they find a girl they are truly interested in. They don't talk to them like this!
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 What the hell? LOL Are you guys like 17? Yeah dude, good advice. Not patronizing at all.
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