Balance11 Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 Me and my ex broke up nearly 10 month ago the last time I had contact with her was 5 month ago. I ended the relationship and being perfectly honest I was a d*** about it, however she got me back and things didn't end on a good note. After 3-4 month from the break up I tried to get back with her, this is when she got me back, leading me on and messing me around, sleeping with her other ex and ignoring all my texts/calls which i deserved though two wrongs dont make a right. After a month and a half nc I sent her a fb message saying sorry and how I cared about her still and had accepted things and was moving on but hoped we could be friends, she show it to her other ex and they took the p*ss out of me and 2 friends and my dad over a fb status so I deleted her and the next day she 'officially' was back with her ex. Since then no contact but I sorted my life out and now I'm completely different, I've got over and forgiven what happen between us and have no bad feelings towards her or her current boyfriend. Saturday gone I got a text from my best friend (who is a mutual friend) asking if I liked my ex still, he told me that at the party they where having that she said she missed me and someone asked her if she would get back with me, she said nothing, so they said 'take that as a yes then ' she said 'yea'. After that she got my friend to text me and then to ring me but my phone was dead but she is still with her other ex/current boyfriend but clearly isn't happy. I was thinking of starting to talk to her again simpley as nothing more than 2 people having a simple conversation however I've been the happiest I've been since I stopped contact with her, I'd accepted she was out my life, and I'm wondering wheather contact would be a mistake or not.
Eternity001 Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 Stay away from it. If you're the happiest you've been for ages and she's not in your life then why bring her into it? It'll just get ugly again in my opinion.
DustySaltus Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 I was thinking of starting to talk to her again simpley as nothing more than 2 people having a simple conversation however I've been the happiest I've been since I stopped contact with her, I'd accepted she was out my life, and I'm wondering wheather contact would be a mistake or not. There's no reason to talk to her. So you screwed up, then she screwed up....it happens. But sometimes people are just toxic when they're together. I think you should just continue in a different direction. I mean why go down that road again?
Author Balance11 Posted November 5, 2010 Author Posted November 5, 2010 I dont want to get back with her, it woudlnt work, i mean she'd so easily leave her current bf nothing stopping her doing the same to me. Just thinking if contact will do any harm
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