Ms_Sweetness Posted November 3, 2010 Share Posted November 3, 2010 So I recently narrowed down my dating pool to 2 guys that I really like. I was really trying to figure out which one I would want to have a steady relationship with. So guy number one that I'be been dating for about 5 months mentioned that he has never had a threesome and would like to before he gets settled down. He asked if I knew anyone willing. I didnt know how to respond because I was shocked. I didn't think that a guy who really cared about a girl would ask for a three some with her and another girl. He claims that he really likes me but just wants to do this so after that convo I started leaning more towards guy #2. Sooo Guy #2 I've been dating for about 3 months and I have a fantastic time everytime we are together, recently told me that he has never had a 3 some and wanted to know if I could coordintate one involving the two of us and another girl1! REally?!?!? What is going on here, is this some new age type stuff? Both of these guys are in their early 30s. I'm a little hurt because both of them have now approached me with this. Link to post Share on other sites
sumdude Posted November 3, 2010 Share Posted November 3, 2010 Well a threesome is on every guys bucket list and some women like the idea too though more often with two guys perhaps. I'd love to have that experience at least once but my life would still be complete if it didn't. However... it wouldn't be with someone I wanted to have a long term exclusive relationship with. It could only be one of those things that just happens and everyone has fun then moves on. Link to post Share on other sites
Sabali Posted November 3, 2010 Share Posted November 3, 2010 It's risky. It can go either way. I wouldn't recommend doing it unless you are just casually dating or it is with someone you already have a strong bond with and are freaky with already. Link to post Share on other sites
nikayla Posted November 3, 2010 Share Posted November 3, 2010 Ms_Sweetness: Do you want a threesome? This simple, yes-or-no question is all that matters. Of course some men are going to ask for a threesome (it has been a common question from my personal experience), but it doesn't mean you have to give in. And why do you feel so hurt? It's the equivalent to a woman asking for a shopping spree when a man states that he makes six figures per year. Decide what you want out of the potential relationships and work from there. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted November 3, 2010 Share Posted November 3, 2010 So, if threesomes aren't your cup of tea, share that and let the results self-select The man who handles your disclosure in the most mature manner becomes the 'steady'. Link to post Share on other sites
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