experience vs inexperience in the sack

[Lemontang]

Well I've just gotten into a solid relationship after a spate of openly dating with a girl who put simply rocks my world right now.

 

Now we get along fantastically and literally both fight each other to get a word in and share a lot of common interests.

 

But here's something I'm just a little unsure about or slightly uncomfortable with, put simply I'm the 2nd guy she's ever slept with. Now I'm 32 she's 33 and she hadn't slept with anyone till she was 28 and she hated the experience for the two times she said she'd had sex with him, her reason for waiting simply put was she's a study/career woman and had no interest so just got it out of the way (I find it hard to believe since she's pretty smok'n). I'm on the opposite spectrum and have had my fair share and I'm pretty open minded as well having even met the legendary Ron Jeremy.

 

Now yes we are sleeping together (and doesn't hate it, since she won't now leave me alone ) and frankly she's going through I guess a sexual awakening with me and in interaction she's shown she lacks experience, constantly asking questions (Which I guess is a good thing, better knowing than not).

 

I guess knowing this my question is how does one feel when they know there partner is significantly less experienced in this area than yourself? Particularly when you've reached an age when you'd think you'd have a few notches on the belt or a fair idea by now on what you want etc...

[denise_xo]

Well I've just gotten into a solid relationship after a spate of openly dating with a girl who put simply rocks my world right now.

 

Now we get along fantastically and literally both fight each other to get a word in and share a lot of common interests.

 

But here's something I'm just a little unsure about or slightly uncomfortable with, put simply I'm the 2nd guy she's ever slept with. Now I'm 32 she's 33 and she hadn't slept with anyone till she was 28 and she hated the experience for the two times she said she'd had sex with him, her reason for waiting simply put was she's a study/career woman and had no interest so just got it out of the way (I find it hard to believe since she's pretty smok'n). I'm on the opposite spectrum and have had my fair share and I'm pretty open minded as well having even met the legendary Ron Jeremy.

 

Now yes we are sleeping together (and doesn't hate it, since she won't now leave me alone ) and frankly she's going through I guess a sexual awakening with me and in interaction she's shown she lacks experience, constantly asking questions (Which I guess is a good thing, better knowing than not).

 

I guess knowing this my question is how does one feel when they know there partner is significantly less experienced in this area than yourself? Particularly when you've reached an age when you'd think you'd have a few notches on the belt or a fair idea by now on what you want etc...

 

I married a virgin at a time when I had been sexually active for about ten years. It was challenging, because we had quite different ideas of what constituted 'acceptable' or 'desirable' sexual behaviour, and he also had issues with my sexual past. So that part of our relationship definitely required a lot more work than what was the case in my previous LTR.

[Joe Normal]

This is like a guy being handed 10 million dollars and complaining he doesn't know how to spend it!

 

Cmon man, just show her how to get it on between the sheets. Teach her everything you know, pass on your wisdom!