TerryV Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Not spoken to my ex in a year but I it doesnt feel right. By this I mean we just split and havent spoken and it feels odd to still be married but living apart and seperate lives. It feels weird. I guess when the two years are up I sort the forms and job done. Such an odd feeling though!
The-Zen-Warrior Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 TerryV : Sorry to hear that your apparently having a hard time coming to grips with the separation. A couple questions here.....as so that maybe other forum members of L.S. can assist you further and better, some questions... You used the term "ex" in your post, all the while saying that you were still married, so what is it, are you truly still married and this is just a planed out long term separation, or is a divorce in the works or already has been done? Is this separation part of an already gone through divorce plan, and this separation is part of the process, have to wait like one or two years for the thing to be final? Here, I will let you in on a little secret, this is only for you, ((other members don't listen in..lol)) this is only for TerryV, the secret is....."your going to be ok"! Maybe you would like to talk about this further, as to help you along the grieving or coping process! There are a lot of good forum members here that have gone through separations, annulments, divorces......you name it, these fine people can help. What were the events that made you separate? Was this separation mutual? Do you feel that one party is to blame more than the other? Just might do you some good to talk about it. So talk, we here on L.S. are listening.........
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