brokenamy Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Yes, we have been back together for the last 3 months and living together for the last two. I haven't told a lot of people because im afraid it'll jinx us, lol! It took a lot of not listening to advice and crying my heart out but essentially I had faith. I'll explain but I am sure this will only confuse you all. For the last year, my husband and I have have been separated 4 times. I went back under pressure from family and his urging but the last time, he finally gave up and started seeing sm1 (he admitted to moving in with her 1 week after meeting her because he was heartbroken and wanted to ease the pain but she turned out to be psycho, jealous and controlling. She said she was abused by many men and one of them stole her kids (lol!) After begging, pleading and really getting what I deserved for leaving the man I love, I started giving up and as my calls stopped and I started doing what the "rules to second chances thread said", he finally left her (she threatened to kill herself even though she'd known him 2 months and blaming him for her issues) He came back. Slowly but surely we are working on rebuilding. Here is how I did it. whether you believe or not, whether you understand or not, here is how I truly got my husband back. My psychic (who lives in a different continent and has never seen me a day in her life or know any of my family members and only asked me my first and last name to read my fortune) told me that she saw that I was separated but hoping for a reunion. She saw that my marriage wasn't over yet. she told me to do certain prayers, give certain things away, light a certain amount of white candles and within 3 months-God willing, my husband will come back. I did as she said and he returned exactly 3 months after. This might not work for everyone. I spent money, time and tears on getting my husband back. I, we still have a long way to go but he is home, we are happy (still with problems) but working on them and so far, so good. So 10 years knowing each other, 9 years together and 8 years of marriage and a year of 4 breakups and separation and we are still standing. I know many don't believe in psychics and the power God has given to prayers and people but here we are. I wish u all luck and be strong. Don't give up on ur love (just don't stalk and be desperate)
strength-abounds Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Congrats on the reconciliation. Nuture this new chance. Do not ever forget what could be lost. God willing and a little faith, your marriage will prove all of us cynics wrong about 2nd chances. Good Luck and God Bless.
Don Ho Posted November 3, 2010 Posted November 3, 2010 Amy I think it's great that you got your husband back. I hope it gets better and the two of you work it out. However, I'm sure there are many other details that you left out of why you reconciled and it's not solely that the psychic told you to light candles and pray. Whether it's timing or you worked out the differences in your relationship, I think what the psychic told you is coincidental to your reconciliation. Part of your success, as you admit, was that you read about 2nd chances and followed the suggestions. The other part is that you BELIEVED that you could reconcile. I probably could have told you to stand on your head in the corner 3 times a day and chant "I will get him back" and if you BELIEVED me that it would work, you would have done it. Then when you got him back you would have said standing on your head was the secret. My point is that because you did "A" and "B" happened that there was a causal connection. While there may be something to prayer and the power of BELIEF that an event will happen, I can bet that many others could do the same that you did and they would not reconcile. No matter though, you did re-unite and I am happy for you regardless of how it happened. Best of luck in continuing to work it out!
Author brokenamy Posted November 4, 2010 Author Posted November 4, 2010 Amy I think it's great that you got your husband back. I hope it gets better and the two of you work it out. However, I'm sure there are many other details that you left out of why you reconciled and it's not solely that the psychic told you to light candles and pray. Whether it's timing or you worked out the differences in your relationship, I think what the psychic told you is coincidental to your reconciliation. Part of your success, as you admit, was that you read about 2nd chances and followed the suggestions. The other part is that you BELIEVED that you could reconcile. I probably could have told you to stand on your head in the corner 3 times a day and chant "I will get him back" and if you BELIEVED me that it would work, you would have done it. Then when you got him back you would have said standing on your head was the secret. My point is that because you did "A" and "B" happened that there was a causal connection. While there may be something to prayer and the power of BELIEF that an event will happen, I can bet that many others could do the same that you did and they would not reconcile. No matter though, you did re-unite and I am happy for you regardless of how it happened. Best of luck in continuing to work it out! Thank you Strength. I am very hopeful and we are working hard at it. Don, I understand that not all of us are believers but I know what happened (my husband had moved to another state and would not speak to me or see me) Then when I light the candles and followed what she said for a week, he called and said that for the past week, he couldn't stop dreaming about me (exactly as she'd predicted) anyway, it doesn't matter and as u say, I got my family back. The only thing that matters. Oh and thanks for ur well wishes =)
tobydog Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Crikey, tell me what to do to get mine back? x
LoveTNT Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Stealing her kids part, was funny! But the psychic part was funnier, sorry. But anyhow, no that it will work out if both partners want too and you both work at it. Theres a lot of forgiving and trust to be worked on. Good luck.
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