hew Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 I lost my best friend today. Its as simple as that i guess. Her parents called my mom and said the friendship wasnt working out because of the stress i was making her feel. I have a hard time with school when it comes to dealing with drama and stress. And my depression problems made her stressed out in which she was feeling she couldnt do anything to help me. Her crying every night about being worried over me.. made things clear to her parents that the friendship needed a break. I understand that and im not mad at anyone. but when i loose my best friend when im dealing with a breakup and mean peopel at school makes me feel like i have no one. Im switching schools though but living in the same town so i can still see the friends i WANT to spend time with. Ill miss her though. And i will miss certain memories and people from that school. Any wise words that can help me realize everything happens for a reason. That reason is there i know it, but its just not to clear right now for me. Im sad and i feel very lonely. I am so thankful i have a supportive mom though who would do anything for me. But sometimes its nice to hear from an outsider who might have something to say. Pease respond if you have any input. Thank you
skydiveaddict Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Yes I lost my best friend. He died six years ago. It's just a part of life we all endure at some point. But you will get thru it, just like the rest of us. Carry on my friend
carhill Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Yes, and, if my experience is any guide, one mourns the loss of who they were when they loved that friend. In many ways, even if not literal, the loss of a loved one, like a best friend, is like a death. Some of us, like skydiveaddict and myself have experienced the literal death and mourned it; others have experienced the death of the friendship with the person continuing. IME, you come to accept it and go on living. It doesn't happen in a day or a week or a month. One day, you wake up, or are doing the most innocuous of things, and suddenly it's there. Acceptance. My sympathies
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