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posted my story here a few weeks ago. needless to say 2nd, 3rd, 4th, etc chances dont really work. im just trying to make sense of this entire situation.

 

i was definitely taken for granted, and walked all over by this person. my friends, her friends, everyone will tell me i have to be strong and let it go, that no matter how hard you try and make something work the effort has to be mutual and she is not in that place in her life right now. well i know its not gonna work ever. but what is it with the mind games?

 

texts, calls, conversations:

 

i miss you

youre the only one for me

youre the best thing thats ever happend to me

i know ive been wrong this entire time, yet i keep making mistakes

you understand me better than anyone else

were meant to be together

i want to make things work, but i cant be the gf/bf you want me to be

you deserve someone that will treat you way better than i can right now

 

its driving me crazy, but im trying to stay trucking and moving on with my life.

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Are you still in contact with her?

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no not after this weekend.

Posted

Ok. Keep it that way.

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im trying. to be completely honest with you my relationship shouldve been done in September. but i let it drag on until what is now November because i was hoping that some one would change, not for themselves but for me. which will never happen. someone will only change if they really want too.

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True. Just stick with NC.

Posted

Wow I can relate too. He ended it and I get sweet texts ever since... even though he has a gf now? Its horribly emotionally messed up. I can't take it anymore... and it sounds like you can't either.

 

We deserve more than that - they can't have their cake and eat it too. Good luck with NC. I'm going that route now too.

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