PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Went out to a club with a bunch of friends and I got a question about a girl that was with us. What does it mean if she dances with you, holds your hand (quite firmly) to bring you around, and takes my hat off and wears it? her pupils were dilated when she was talking to me (i guess they say is important) and had great eye contact too, talked a bit she just flirting or does she want more? met her that night through friends
runner Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 at that point you take her aside and make out for a bit. if this didn't happen, then better luck next time.
Author PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 so then basically she was putting it out there and even though i was showing semi-interest, because i didnt make out with her she thinks i wasnt interested? and probably she isnt either
runner Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 not necessarily, but she was definitely giving you an opening in that particular moment. will that opportunity ever come back with her ? hard to say; some women can be fickle. and she's probably forgotten about you after the other stud made out with her. take your chances next time. be bold.
Author PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 not necessarily, but she was definitely giving you an opening in that particular moment. will that opportunity ever come back with her ? hard to say; some women can be fickle. and she's probably forgotten about you after the other stud made out with her. take your chances next time. be bold. there was no stud sir. she did however exchange numbers with another dude, but she said he is dumb and did it for entertainment purposes
loverofloveandstuff Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 You were in a club, her pupils were dilated because it was dark. I make eye contact with anybody I am talking to, always. Holding your hand, dancing with you and wearing your hat is obviously a good sign.
Author PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 what if her friend said "i think ___ likes you" ? (her)
Author PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 well that was the highlight of the night because after that we got distanced and that was it. did i blow it because i didnt make out with her? did she exchange numbers with that dude to spite me because she was maybe upset? am i designated in the friend zone now?
lso802 Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 she did however exchange numbers with another dude, but she said he is dumb and did it for entertainment purposes Careful. She could be saying the same about you, if she's playing the field. If you have her number, call her up. Make a move.
Author PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 (edited) ahh well, i dont have it. never asked she is also friends with some of my friends via work. although i wouldnt rule anything out as far as what she thinks of me, i really dont think i was entertainment or dumb. she knows who i associate with Edited November 2, 2010 by PersonMan
Author PersonMan Posted November 2, 2010 Author Posted November 2, 2010 You were in a club, her pupils were dilated because it was dark. I make eye contact with anybody I am talking to, always. Holding your hand, dancing with you and wearing your hat is obviously a good sign. are you a girl?
redliner Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 I agree with some of the other posters, you got to be bold. Looks like you missed your window of opportunity that night.
utterer of lies Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 Went out to a club with a bunch of friends and I got a question about a girl that was with us. What does it mean if she dances with you, holds your hand (quite firmly) to bring you around, and takes my hat off and wears it? her pupils were dilated when she was talking to me (i guess they say is important) and had great eye contact too, talked a bit she just flirting or does she want more? met her that night through friends If her pupils were dilated strongly, it might also hint towards ecstasy or other drugs. Next time, just go with it and see where it leads. Who cares if she wants more, you'll find out soon enough.
bac Posted November 4, 2010 Posted November 4, 2010 If you are a man, all you need to know if you like her. If you like her, you go and get her. On your way to get her, you should definitely figure out if she likes you. But, at the begining, it does not matter what is on her mind. BTW young girls often do not know what is on their minds themselves.
Author PersonMan Posted November 6, 2010 Author Posted November 6, 2010 If her pupils were dilated strongly, it might also hint towards ecstasy or other drugs. Next time, just go with it and see where it leads. Who cares if she wants more, you'll find out soon enough. she was not on any drugs. at all.
mogul Posted November 6, 2010 Posted November 6, 2010 If her pupils were super dilated, and she was lovey dovey, its usually an indication she was on ecstasy. Aside from that, holding hands and leading from one spot to the other in the club, and dancing together doesn't really mean anything. I even do it to my female friends, and we are strictly platonic. All about just having a good time. Only way to know is if you dance with her, lock eyes, and just kiss.
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