It's Over

[lizzibeth]

Most of you know my story.

 

I broke it off, we talked for about a week and ultimately every chance he got to fix things, he chose the game.

 

I'm ok. I've told him not to come visit. I will miss him but i won't miss feeling this insignificant.

[LittleTiger]

I'm sorry lizzibeth. Ending any relationship is very sad.

 

BUT I think you've done the right thing. You deserve better.

 

(((hugs)))

[folieadeux]

So sorry to hear this. I know you're hurting right now, but you really did the right thing. You deserve so much better than someone who puts a game above real life.

[LisaLee]

So sorry!! MMOs can be just as bad as FB in terms of killing relationships. What has he said? How did he react?

[Els]

You go girl!!!

 

You did the right thing. Playing games is okay, but someone who puts everyone and everything in his life second to them just deserves to be dumped.

 

Stay strong. (hugs)

[Omei]

That's too bad, his loss!

[lizzibeth]

He has spent the last week blowing my phone up with text and calls. He insists he is going to come here in two weeks to work this out. He has sent me flowers twice. I haven't talked to him in a week. Nothing. Not because I don't miss him, I do. I am not a doormat though and this is not healthy for me. I'm not just holding my breath and stomping my feet. I genuinely don't want this forever and the contact only makes me hurt worse because I do miss him and how we used to be. I just realize he won't change until he wants to and I don't have to lose my self worth in the process.

[ComeUndone]

Good for you lizzi - you are taking care of yourself. Be strong, things will get easier in time. Keep up the NC... talking to him would only make things harder on yourself. I wish I had your strength - I admire you.

[Citizen Erased]

I am so sorry to read this. FTR I think you have done the right thing. NC is best. No matter how sweet he is, no matter how many times he sends you flowers, he is yet to prove that he will put you first in the long term. Be strong.

[aerogurl87]

I'm sad your relationship had to end but he chose the game over you and you're right. You deserve way more than that in a relationship. Actions mean more than words and unless he stops playing the game and shows he truly wants to put you first, then this is for the best.