sally4sara Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 I miss your point at the moment(in a bad state). What do you mean? I know that i am stupidly tolerating. But oh well she has had her share of toleration also at the past. She could actually have broken up with me plenty of times due to impatience and intoleration but, like me, she thought it was worth it. who knows anymore Trust has been lost on my part.Now each time she'll go out I'll think of bad scenarios. I know that trust is created in each person's mind.And it's subjective. But in my humble opinion there are always some basic rules about trust (i.e. if you lie to someone you his/her trust to you will be decreased). And well when trust is low it needs to be fed. With truth, honesty and reassurance. Mine is starving. Oh that's really awful Melk. I'm sorry to hear you this way. If you want to stay with her, that is your choice. Maybe it will work out and maybe not. But keep in mind that she is not the only woman out there. You could walk away from this and her. It might even end up being the best thing that ever happened to you if this relationship ends. Good luck.
PegNosePete Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 The point is that you have all the information to decide your next action. You know that your gf is being deceptive, manipulative and hypocritical. She wants to have sex with other girls but would not accept it if you did the same. Her lame-ass excuses about childhood trauma are piss-poor justification for being unfaithful. So you can either put up with her cheating on you, or you can dump her. The choice is yours.
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