I don’t understand Women’s

[Geoorge]

I have been married for the last two years,

Here is the situation

My wife never forget nothing, even if we overcome a problem, it will hit us back again like a boomerang,

She never gave a kiss, but she is always is demanding one, not always in the most romantic fashion, but more likely, ‘You never give a kiss, you are always thinking in nothing”

She continually treat me with “she don’t love me anymore”

But when do we get to the point of no return, about getting divorce,

She always refuses and cries, telling how much she loves me,

It’s so difficult to hang on, I’m not sure what direction to make, On the day to day a separation looks so feasible, but in the long run, it’s so difficult

[dreamingoftigers]

Look up borderline personality disorder. Get yourself to marital counseling. have fun!

 

It isn't unworkable, it is very difficult though.

[quankanne]

hmmm ... sounds like she had a pretty lousy role model for relationships, and thinks *this* is how you proceed with one. She tests you by saying horrible things, then cries when you call her on it (or threaten to leave). Not healthy at all.

 

definitely get yourself to a marriage counselor or look into marriage enrichment classes. Being married shouldn't have to be a job you hate doing!

[Smoky Day]

It sounds like she's unhappy and trying to tell you that she's unhappy and wants something different, but doens't know how to tell you without it coming out all wrong. Being unhappy with something doesn't mean she wants a divorce though, it means she wants something to change. Sounds like she needs to change, too.

 

Also if it seems like a woman is always bringing up the same problem over and over again, it's sometimes because she is trying to explain to you how the same kinds of things keep happening, because they are all related in her way of thinking. Maybe she's trying to draw your attention to the fact that a certain theme of behavior is driving her crazy, and you are misunderstanding and feeling picked on for the first thing over and over again.

 

Marriage counseling, do it. Your marriage needs help with communication. And read a book called "The Five Love Languages".