listen_to_me_please Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 (edited) background info: I didn't do anything crazy or stalkerish after the breakup, I just basically cursed her out, threw her out, fired her, then i thought we were making up until i realized she wasn't going to stop and was using me for the money, so i fired her again, cursed her out again, took back the money i was giving her, then told her to have a nice day but before that, severed all ties within my family to the girl, canceled all appointments and future dates (bascially i was trying to get rid of her in any and every way possible including but not limited to throwing out clothes, destroying photos to the point where i have not even ONE picture" yada.. yada.. yada..... broke up with ex about 3 years ago. dated for about 1 year 5 months. last 6 months of relationship, turns out she was having sex with another. i said some hurtful things which were true..... she did the same.... yada yada... fast forward 3 years. so i called her, it was sent to voicemail. i called her the next day, her phone number was changed. I wanted to marry her, but she left ME once she had sex with another..... my question: so what i'm asking is, why on earth would a female whom haven't had any sort of contact from their EX in over 3 years go and change the phone number the VERY next day after the ex boyfriend contacted them isn't that weird? i think that's weird. Edited November 1, 2010 by listen_to_me_please
gemmie Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 No, not weird - just making her feelings towards you obvious. After 3 years she has moved on, she doesn't want contact with you. I would probably do the same. She may have resentment or pain that she hasn't dealt with, but after 3 years, its over for her.
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