samantha_123 Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 My bf of six years left me for somebody else. I can’t understand it why did he do that to me? He said he loved me but things would not work out between us. I asked him why he said because I didn’t have set career, im lazy, I don’t cook and clean. I told him those are not reasons to leave somebody for. Then I found some pictures of him with some other girl . (Some of the pictures of her were expulsive.) He shows no remorse for what hes done nor does he care. What is he thinking? She obviously is not wife material. Why leave your gf of six years for somebody like that?
Author samantha_123 Posted November 1, 2010 Author Posted November 1, 2010 I am sick to my stomach ... Ive been with him cents I was 18 now Im going to be 25 .... How could he just pick up his bags and leave me....
Leandro Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Welcome to LS samantha_123. I'm sorry that you are going through this pain. Many people here are going through the same thing or have already gone through it. You will get good advice. I was with my ex for only 13 months and she left me for someone else too. You deserve better and will find someone better. You need to go NC to heal and move on.
Billie The Puppet Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 My bf of six years left me for somebody else. I can’t understand it why did he do that to me? He said he loved me but things would not work out between us. I asked him why he said because I didn’t have set career, im lazy, I don’t cook and clean. I told him those are not reasons to leave somebody for. Then I found some pictures of him with some other girl . (Some of the pictures of her were expulsive.) He shows no remorse for what hes done nor does he care. What is he thinking? She obviously is not wife material. Why leave your gf of six years for somebody like that? I am sorry this has happened to you, I was left for another too. However you were at least not given the leading you on stuff he gave you reasons. Although harsh and to you are not valid reasons perhaps they are. Perhaps he is looking for someone who is not lazy, cooks, cleans and is career oriented. Something to him that is wife material. Unfortunately you also don't get to decide who his wife material is. What you need to do is now work on yourself.
LovelyDaze Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Perhaps he is looking for someone who is not lazy, cooks, cleans and is career oriented. Something to him that is wife material. Unfortunately you also don't get to decide who his wife material is. What you need to do is now work on yourself. I must admit that Billie has a point. Most people date to find the "right one" for THEM. We all are the perfect match to some and totally wrong to others. Don't take this too personally, I bet you have beautiful qualities that would make another man thank the heavens above that he found you. As always advised, go NC. Don't call your ex for answers because it doesn't matter anymore. It won't make you magically feel better at all. Like many on LS, my ex dropped me like a sack of potatoes last year in October. I was numb for days. My tears wouldn't stop, I lost weight, skipped work, obsessed over it every second of the hour. You will go through all of this and should. But please don't contact him. Trust me, you will heal. With nearly 7 billion people on earth there is more than "the one" for everyone.
qinboxmail Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 My bf of six years left me for somebody else. I can’t understand it why did he do that to me? He said he loved me but things would not work out between us. I asked him why he said because I didn’t have set career, im lazy, I don’t cook and clean. I told him those are not reasons to leave somebody for. Then I found some pictures of him with some other girl . (Some of the pictures of her were expulsive.) He shows no remorse for what hes done nor does he care. What is he thinking? She obviously is not wife material. Why leave your gf of six years for somebody like that? When a person leaves you he no longer love you. Time to move on. Why would you let yourself get hurt when someone doesn't care about you at all ?
skydiveaddict Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 (edited) When a person leaves you he no longer love you. Time to move on. Why would you let yourself get hurt when someone doesn't care about you at all ? Her guy up and leaves her after six years and you wonder why she's hurting? You are either a troll or you are clueless. I'm guessing the first. Edited November 2, 2010 by skydiveaddict
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