lenny Posted November 1, 2010 Share Posted November 1, 2010 Prior to dating my new guy, I was single, happy with it, had plans to die single ... then he came along. I was married for 16 years previously (with 4 kids) and then did some dating afterwords but got rid of the guys pretty quick - if figured I was just not able to emotionally put myself out there any more and was quite happy being on my own. We've been dating for a few months now and everything has been moving soooo quick - and has felt soooo right! Now I feel we are moving away from being all googly (which was bound to happen). We are both starting to spend some time apart from each other rather than spending 24/7 outside of work together. I've already decided that I am willing to really work on this relationship, it is that good. While he gets some balance between his normal life and working me into it I would like to give him as much space away from me as possible to work it out but I wonder how much space is too much. I have a tendancy to go "ice queen" pretty easy where I start to not even feel anything if I get worried about getting hurt in the end - totally a defense mechanism. This relationship took me completely by surprise but it's really very amazing and I really don't want to wreck it. Link to post Share on other sites
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