Aflac2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 Hey why is it the expected norm for men to make the first move? I've heard of some situations where women make the first move, but for the most part, men are expected to initiate the conversation, ask the woman out on a date, proposition her for sex, propose marriage, etc. Why? I mean we don't like rejection either, it's hard on us too. I don't think that one gender should be expected to assume the burden of initiating everything. Because some men have trouble with these things.
Yvette_Sveden Posted November 2, 2010 Posted November 2, 2010 Hey why is it the expected norm for men to make the first move? I've heard of some situations where women make the first move, but for the most part, men are expected to initiate the conversation, ask the woman out on a date, proposition her for sex, propose marriage, etc. Why? I mean we don't like rejection either, it's hard on us too. I don't think that one gender should be expected to assume the burden of initiating everything. Because some men have trouble with these things. Ja. Other than the proposal of marriage part, there are times where I would take the initiative and strike up a conversation with a hot guy, or be the one to initiate sex (because I want my needs met when I'm getting all hot, too), and I don't mind asking a guy what he's doing on the weekend. I mean I love it when a man does it because it makes me feel safe to know that this man can take control of the situation and be all smooth or nonchalant about it. Just love it! But sometimes, I feel that the man will reward me with awesome sex and company if I relieve some pressure off of him if I'm the first to express interest. If a woman knows what she wants, she will go for it! That kind of thing can turn men on. Yvette from Sweden
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