Any decent looking women is treated like a mini celebrity in this country

[SteveC80]

I was with a large group this wekend to various lounges bars etc and was shocked at how much attention the females with us got wheter they were good looking or not they had numerous guys approach them in one night and hit on them

 

I now understand why even average looking women have self inflated egos,theyre hit on cosntantly and i can see why it would be an ego boost

 

I can also see why some Men on here in the average range of looks compalin that they find it harder and harder to find women on their level when women who are average as well are in such high demand and its such high competiton

[redmelon]

sounds like Paradise!

[Capital P]

Sounds like my home town.

Grow some balls, go hit on girls in the daytime, they are much more receptive.

Or just the fact that you are with a load of girls gives you massive social props, so you are doing the right thing anyway

[sanskrit]

Was out last night also. In my locale at three different bar parties, about 40% of the women were morbidly obese, another 20% significantly overweight. I remember one group of five girls sitting next to each other on a ledge, an average looking girl and four truly gigantic women. Made the average girl look that much better. That kind of thing drives up the attention level towards average women even more. Maybe 10% of the guys at these bar parties were as big as 40% of the women.

[Knittress]

Uh, no.

Just because a woman isn't interested in you, for whatever reason, doesn't mean there's something wrong with her.

[Woggle]

It's partly men's fault for boosting their ego.

[OceanGirl]

I want to move there

[Disillusioned]

Also, imagine how much pressure these "roasters" must be under to model for photo shoots by spammy dating site headhunters.

 

Tell ya one thing, if I was a beautiful woman, there'd be quite a lot of guys walking around with busted noses...

[SteveC80]

Uh, no.

Just because a woman isn't interested in you, for whatever reason, doesn't mean there's something wrong with her.

 

Not to seem conceited but ive never had anything close to a problem getting women,just an observation i had going out on the town

[that girl]

Not to seem conceited but ive never had anything close to a problem getting women,just an observation i had going out on the town

 

If you'd never had any trouble getting women, you wouldn't be wondering why some average looking women have "inflated egos."

 

Your whole post (and Sanskrit's comment) reek of bitterness.

[sanskrit]

Your whole post (and Sanskrit's comment) reek of bitterness.

 

I doubt "bitterness" is the proper term to describe annoyance at so many women being huge these days, but thanks for the routine that girl cliche'.

[Mad Max]

A lot of women seem to refer to "bitterness" when having nothing substantial to add or losing a debate. And there is nothing inaccurate about the OP's conclusion, BTW.

[mogul]

I'm for the most part, a nice guy. I also daze off a lot. I hate boosting an ugly girls self esteem. There have been times where i've held the door open for these women without even a thank you or being acknowledged as if they were entitled. Other times when I have been on the phone, and daze off and smile i tend to look past people and not realize i'm staring directly at someone.

The then proceed to toss their hair, or look like they are god's gift to men. Quite annoying actually.

[Alma Mobley]

Where is this mythical place I keep hearing about where average women are treated like queens? I think I'm above average so I'd love to visit there!

[Knittress]

I hate boosting an ugly girls self esteem.

Dude - what's wrong with everyone boosting everyone elses' self-esteem? If people were nice to each other for no reason and with no expectations, what an awesome world it would be.

 

Maybe those ugly girls are really cool, or really nice - but there you are calling them ugly like you have the power to weigh the entirety of their self-worth merely on the basis of your opinion. So you don't want to sleep with them - whatever! No reason not to happily hold upon doors for one and all. That should be about how awesome YOU are, not how hot the chick is.

[sanskrit]

I know more women who use the terms "loser" or "goober" when describing men they find undesirable than I know men who refer to women as "ugly chicks." So men have no monopoly on this kind of meanness.

[Knittress]

I know more women who use the terms "loser" or "goober" when describing men they find undesirable than I know men who refer to women as "ugly chicks." So men have no monopoly on this kind of meanness.

 

I wasn't saying they did, but making an effort to be awesome whether it's expected/appreciated has got to start SOMEwhere.

I hold doors open for guys all the time.

[sanskrit]

Yes, agreed, the world would be a better place with more people displaying common courtesy. Unfortunately modern U.S. culture isolates people into little worlds unto themselves.

[mogul]

 

Maybe those ugly girls are really cool, or really nice - but there you are calling them ugly like you have the power to weigh the entirety of their self-worth merely on the basis of your opinion. So you don't want to sleep with them - whatever! No reason not to happily hold upon doors for one and all. That should be about how awesome YOU are, not how hot the chick is.

 

It is not as if I call them ugly to their face or even say it out loud for that matter. I am not judging them on their appearance, but rather their actions.

I seem to notice that with these "less than stellar women" feel even more entitled than their beautiful counterparts and perhaps as a defense mechanism come off as bitches.

[OceanGirl]

Where is this mythical place I keep hearing about where average women are treated like queens? I think I'm above average so I'd love to visit there!

 

Me too! I always think WTF at threads like this

[loverofloveandstuff]

I actually think this is kind of true. kind of. Only I wouldn't say 'mini celebrity' and I wouldn't say 'average.'

 

I have a gorgeous friend (I would not call her average) and whenever I go out with her we regularly get free entry into clubs/bars and all that jazz. One time we were having dinner together and she was talking 908213810 words a minute about her relationship problems. The men sitting behind us told us to relax and paid our (expensive) bill for us. I'll say it again though, she is NOT average. This does not happen with my other friends.

[ascendotum]

Was out last night also. In my locale at three different bar parties, about 40% of the women were morbidly obese, another 20% significantly overweight. I remember one group of five girls sitting next to each other on a ledge, an average looking girl and four truly gigantic women. Made the average girl look that much better. That kind of thing drives up the attention level towards average women even more. Maybe 10% of the guys at these bar parties were as big as 40% of the women.

 

At the risk of getting labeled bitter, its not that dissimilar in my neck of the woods as well, though I wouldn't say that many fall into 'morbid' category, Easy half are overweight though in the local nightspots (over 28s), and with guys outnumbering the single women, its a case of get in line to talk to the slim/avg women.

[loverofloveandstuff]

At the risk of getting labeled bitter, its not that dissimilar in my neck of the woods as well, though I wouldn't say that many fall into 'morbid' category, Easy half are overweight though in the local nightspots (over 28s), and with guys outnumbering the single women, its a case of get in line to talk to the slim/avg women.

 

Maybe it's because I'm in a younger age group or something, no idea, but I seriously do not see that many overweight people at the nightspots I go to...infact, I see many gorgeous girls.

 

I might be immune to it because we're supposed to have the highest (second highest??) obesity rates in the world but I don't think I'm that blind. I see SO many pretty girls when I go out. Maybe you're just not going to the right places.

[Sarah1977]

I see SO many pretty girls when I go out. Maybe you're just not going to the right places.

 

 

I agree. I feel like I could walk into any mall/store/restaurant/etc, throw a brick, and hit at least 50 pretty girls.

[ascendotum]

Maybe it's because I'm in a younger age group or something, no idea, but I seriously do not see that many overweight people at the nightspots I go to...infact, I see many gorgeous girls.

 

Oh yeah..its because you are younger. Walking or driving past the inner city club venues Friday or Saturday night, there are so many hot looking (figure wise + dress wise) girls queuing up. Average age is probably 20. I was talking more about suburban venues (28up). The pickings are better at the inner city venues that have live music, still guys outnumber women past the age of IDK..26, at most places, and with each year up the number of slim single women who go out, gets less and less.