rebeccajones Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 I'm thinking I want him back, I can't go on without him and I'm thinking he may want me too. I am romanticising the relationship and him. I feel pathetic. It just hurts so bad. I didn't think it would. From what he has said and from what I've heard he wants to move on. My mind is telling me we will be together, but then again I want him to be a family man and he is not. I want it to be "us" me and him in love against the world. I can see it. I love him. I think he hates me.
skydiveaddict Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 (edited) I never thought it could hurt this bad either. But I think you must try to forget him. If you keep "romanticizing" this or clinging to false hope you risk sinking into a deep black hole of despair that is very hard to climb out of. I know, I'm still climbing back out of that hole, and it can take a very long, painful time Edited October 31, 2010 by skydiveaddict
TerryV Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 It is hut hard, but we all have weaker moments. Sometimes I sit in my room and i cant believe that I am never going to be with my wife ever again, never again will I touch her, kiss her and that makes me so sad. But thats at weak moments in stronger times my mind says I can live without her, I can be strong on my own. Its when those weaker moments happen less often and they do in time that you slowly begin to heal. Its damn hard but I believe you can heal. In time.
Author rebeccajones Posted November 1, 2010 Author Posted November 1, 2010 "I can live without her, I can be strong on my own" I like that. Thanks guys I will heal. It's the false hope that's getting me and that false hope even makes me feel ok, but then I know it's most likely false!! THanks!
iknow Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 ya i feel the same way! its like i need the false hopes to get through the day, but maybe someday i wont need them anymore. Even though i want it to get better, its like i have to feel this way for him to come back. Because if i move on, its over.
stopthemadness Posted November 1, 2010 Posted November 1, 2010 I'm thinking I want him back, I can't go on without him and I'm thinking he may want me too. I am romanticising the relationship and him. I feel pathetic. It just hurts so bad. I didn't think it would. From what he has said and from what I've heard he wants to move on. My mind is telling me we will be together, but then again I want him to be a family man and he is not. I want it to be "us" me and him in love against the world. I can see it. I love him. I think he hates me. So sorry for your pain. I feel you I really do.I too was soo hung up on a man just like you. Truth be told ,still am. I take it one day at a time. Mornings r the hardest for some reason. hes moved on, seeing someone. Am not. Its way to soon for me. But I want you to check out this site "Heal my Broken Heart 15 steps" Hope it helps..Good luck! we can do this...
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