Hhhh Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 (edited) we broke a month and a half ago after a year and half relationship because of reasons i don't understand. she said she was confused having doubts for a month, needed to focus on herself and friends. but days before i was getting love you's and everything. she started university recently and is working as well, so needless to say i was insecure because she was going to a completely new environment and leaving me behind and i was clinging on while she was pushing away (completely missed signs until after the break up). to backtrack i month prior to the i was very distant and did show her much affection and appreciation because of reasons of my own that i discussed with her (and thought she understood). although i was going through a tough time i always made time for her even though when we saw each other we didn't do anything interesting the relationship was getting dull (communicated via text all day there was nothing interesting to say while we were face to face). anyways there isn't anyone else that was she told me during the break up and well i do believe her also been talk to mutual friends but im still confused as what is the real reason for the break up. She said i deserve more than she could give and that she is sorry that is hurting me. i told her during the break (was angry and upset) that we cant be friends after this. i couldn't believe she would runaway from the relationship after everything we have been through i begged for to think things over and but my impatience got to me and i called her the next day she was crying and said she can't do this anymore and told me to let go and move on but she still loved me and it feels right to be with me. so i went NC for a week and called she didn't answer and called after a few days later never got a answer i was also deleted from msn so it got be thinking did i do something wrong to be getting the cold shoulder. well anyways what do you guys think? was the neediness, the lack of affection and appreciation, or do sometimes they need breaks to actually focus on themselves. mind you we are young adults both of us are first timers in relationships and i have read that women sometimes want to explore other avenues when they hit a certain age but she always wanted to get married really young Edited October 31, 2010 by Hhhh
brandon9384 Posted October 31, 2010 Posted October 31, 2010 What age do they say they want to check out other avenues?
Author Hhhh Posted October 31, 2010 Author Posted October 31, 2010 What age do they say they want to check out other avenues? 17 - 21 was the age i believe
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